I feel like I am drowning in a middle of a room full of people and no one can see me 💔
2026-10-09 18:36:42
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Drlikedrea :
It’s EQUALLY as important to remind people to be cognizant that going out of your way to say something nice and compliment someone is SO POWERFUL - can move mountains to hear sweet words when you’re going through it. The kind people kept me going.
2026-10-09 16:33:53
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Lola 🇨🇦 :
I think you are fantastic. Advice from an old lady (and I really know how hard it is): Be Teflon. Let it slip off you. They do not matter.
2026-10-09 19:05:26
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joslina :
I agree. I’ve experienced both sides of this. Some days I have interactions with the most beautiful humans and I’m blown away with gratefulness. I hope tomorrow brings you the that :)
2026-10-14 01:14:58
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Mik :
Girl this!! Thank you!! Had a horrible experience with someone at work, who was very unkind and cruel. She has no idea how hard these last couple years have been for me. I would never want to treat anyone like she treated me. It’s not hard to just be respectful.
2026-10-09 17:40:48
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M&M Mama :
I completely agree, I was having a hard time in life when a man started yelling at me in the grocery store. I became so upset I had to leave with nothing I needed! Being kind is free, it goes a long way
2026-10-09 15:38:32
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Lisa Gardiner :
Such a great point! I am sorry that you got treated poorly.
2026-10-14 16:50:41
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Maureen Garner :
Big Hugs! You are a beautiful person inside and out! I hope you have a better day tomorrow ❤️❤️❤️
2026-10-13 03:07:14
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Anne :
I always give our little compliments when I’m out and about. I KNOW people struggle as do I.
2026-10-09 16:43:51
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Jessica Berg :
Preach it!!! I will always do my best to do that for those I interact with because it just doesn’t make sense not to …
2026-10-12 23:53:48
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justeen_1980 :
I tell everyone to treat everyone with kindness because you never know what someone is going through. A simple smile or a good morning can make someone’s day!! Staying smiling your beautiful💜💜 I lost my ex-husband to suicide and no one would have ever known he was so depressed and sad inside. He smiled all the time!! My heart is broke that I couldn’t be there to help him through it!!
2026-10-09 18:22:02
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Sandinmytoes :
I remember when my son was in the middle of a six week hospital stay and as I drove to the hospital one morning someone got angry at my driving and honked at me in rage. If everyone offered a bit more grace the world would be better!
2026-10-09 15:54:19
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Sbann :
I know you are young but absolutely no stranger or acquaintance should have that power over you. Be confident and don’t even pay attention to that. Who the hell cares what they say or think. Give zero fucks.
2026-10-12 16:55:52
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Maryn Lindley :
Sending all the love mama!
2026-10-09 16:16:29
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jhalverson866 :
People are assholes! So many people struggle with things you can’t see and one snide comment can make or break a day for someone 🥲
2026-10-09 18:12:54
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shannafredrickson :
Love this!!!
2026-10-09 19:11:10
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Danette :
You’re so right! 💯💯💯! sending you a big hug! Life can be hard! We all need to be kind to each other ❤️
2026-10-09 15:56:13
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andylag1 :
I think this is so true and maybe try to consider that the person who behaved badly, possibly is in a terrible situation and reacting as well. Not that it is ok, but to help you not take it so hard.
2026-10-11 06:30:07
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Ahmijab :
Sending you a hug🥺❤️
2026-10-09 19:26:34
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doubledownjenn :
Yes girl I feel this 💯 nobody has a clue. If you looked at me you probably wouldn’t guess that my husband passed away 2 weeks ago or I’m dealing with a narcissistic baby daddy. Going to go back to court soon cuz he’s trying to take my 13 yr old son out of state to move. Like my kids are my life. Having my car taken cuz kids dad wants to be in control and have power. So over this damn life …..
2026-10-09 18:11:38
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Erica aka Pug & Pekingese Mom :
Sending a hug.
2026-10-09 16:56:59
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Kate K. :
It’s free to be nice! Keep your chin up mama! You are doing a 👏 great job 👏
2026-10-09 17:52:50
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Marysa Elaine :
I just want you to know how incredibly brave you are. I was a single mama to one after my divorce, and a few years later, I met my now husband. I remember how overwhelming, exhausting and isolating single motherhood could feel, and that was with one child. I can only imagine the weight of carrying so much on your own while raising three.
I hope you give yourself credit for everything you do, even on the days when it feels like you’re barely keeping your head above water. Your kids are watching a mama who keeps showing up, even when it’s hard, and there’s something incredibly powerful about that.
Keep being vulnerable, and don’t stop sharing your heart. It’s that honesty that connects so many of your followers to you.
2026-10-09 18:48:37
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aperol_bethany :
This messages touched my heart. Not bc I pity you but bc I have been there. People need to be open about this. I was at the worst time in my life if with life crumbling down around me - and there were people that decided to kick me while I was down and it was overwhelming. Kindness can have the same effect on someone having a bad day - it can turn it all around.
2026-10-09 17:58:33
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Megan Esqueda :
This is so true! I learned this when my dad was diagnosed with cancer. I was struggling. I am sorry you had a bad experience this morning! You are loved 💙💙
2026-10-09 15:33:19
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