Not being understanding of people's finances is selfish on the Brides part...
2026-10-09 16:24:32
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Jill :
But are the other bridesmaids really ok with it?
2026-10-09 23:24:01
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morozovaskat :
Wedding DAY! Not weekend, week, month, year.
2026-10-09 16:16:59
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Fractured :
I've never understood all the bridal/groom/pre-wedding actives and expenses. bought my maid of honor her dress. a person's wedding shouldn't be another person's debt.
2026-10-10 14:58:29
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🌻cat rizzo🌻 :
When I was in my 20s my best friend got married and had a HUGE wedding!! I was a single mom and was SO broke!! Her mom knew I couldn’t afford it and she paid for everything for me! She was the sweetest thing ever 🥰
2026-10-09 18:54:03
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Marian :
I don't understand this, why do weddings have to involve so many activities? this is all getting out of hand...if you want me there, you pay for it!
2026-10-09 17:39:18
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littleautisticgrasshopper :
I'm not even having a bachelorette party, I didn't have an engagement party and I have let my brides maids and maid of honor pick their own dress in green. I just have to pre-approve as I want a green rainbow. not too many of the same shades. I'm sorry I'm not putting my wedding party into debt for a wedding they didn't ask for
2026-10-09 22:40:15
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user8585952088807 :
Just had this conversation with a younger coworker. She couldn’t afford the $2k wedding weekend stuff as MOH and explained this-she was completely UNINVITED from the wedding. She learned the hard way about fair weather friends.
2026-10-09 18:04:36
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Ann :
And then they got divorced after 2 years
2026-10-09 16:16:27
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lgrist110 :
“Yeh ok…I’m out!! Enjoy your wedding!”
2026-10-09 17:01:38
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sammychocolate1208 :
I’m sorry, but I am not allowing you to spend my money. I can attend some things. I will choose them if that’s not acceptable. I need to step down.
2026-10-10 20:57:08
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staciestacy1981 :
Weddings have definitely gotten out of hand. I was a bridesmaid multiple times. If I could afford to travel in, I came to the events, but no one was offended if I couldn’t make anything other than the wedding. Not to mention the whole bachelorette trip thing. It used to be one night, and we went out then crashed at one of the bridal party’s apartment or a hotel, if we were feeling bougie. I don’t get this weird, over the top wedding culture now.
2026-10-09 18:25:32
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Educataduck :
a former best friend of mine... wanted me in their wedding party... cool. but then they booked their venue...
without looking at any events in the surrounding area at the same time...
and so they locked down their wedding date for during the same weekend as ComicCon in San Diego...
a destination wedding for everyone, cause even though everyone was from the Chicagoland area, one set of parents recently moved to another state. and no that state wasnt california. so literally a destination wedding for everyone.
my former friend was mad I couldnt afford that trip, let alone during the price gouging of when they chose their wedding date
2026-10-10 19:17:21
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i’m catman :
Pay for it or expect people to drop out. Your wedding is important TO YOU. NO LNE ELSE.
2026-10-09 18:18:56
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user9619072177434 :
Young women need to realize it’s ok to say no to these invites. “Would you be my bridesmaid? No.” *in the nicest possible way, but still no. 😬
2026-10-10 17:51:00
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Amanda :
Not everyone has that kind of money and travel time just to travel for someone else's wedding let alone a Bachelorette and bride showers too.
2026-10-09 16:01:49
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sunshine.77.22 ☀️ :
Having to fly to the bachelorette party is just ridic
2026-10-10 01:57:26
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Deborah 🐬 🐧🐧 :
I hate it when brides do this
2026-10-10 02:41:51
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SW_HailState :
“My PTO and money isn’t about you.”
2026-10-10 03:00:39
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Miss Melanin :
"Do you not care about my special day"........at this point hell naw I have a life
2026-10-10 02:31:53
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Bridget :
No. I don’t want to be there when you leave for your honeymoon
2026-10-09 16:02:13
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Crusty :
weddings are a nightmare
2026-10-09 16:01:48
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Emily Duncan :
Yo. All my bridesmaids live out of state. The only thing I expect them to show up for is the rehearsal and the wedding day.
2026-10-09 19:11:12
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cathfdezm :
ohhh part 2 with others doing the same
2026-10-09 17:39:01
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Manman Taffy 🇭🇹 (mahn-mahn) :
Your tattoos are so beautiful
2026-10-09 15:59:18
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