@meandmygirls_mm: Replying to @Amber it’s so heartbreaking to realise that they made you small and scared because they wanted to. Everyone’s life is nuanced and their own experiences make you who you are - but making others suffer for your own gain is a choice, and realising that is so tough #singlemum #singlemumlife #mystory #mylife #storytime

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philocasia
Luz :
I have a question. I’m have he married again? Does he have other children now?
2026-10-09 18:09:47
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sinceresong
sinceresong :
I choose to never trust him with a thing now. I think it's been deliberate so doesn't have to be responsible but I prefer life without him.
2026-10-09 20:17:38
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binkiweb
Binkiweb :
By the time mine abandoned me , I genuinely thought I was an awful person ( teacher , foster carer , looking after parents, paying all the bills ) . I wasn’t . He did this as he’s a covert narcissist , he pushed me to the brink in private to make me look like the baddie in public
2026-10-09 17:13:44
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scootch_a_mooch
scooch_a_mooch :
My father was a manipulative narcissist too and I remember feeling physically sick and scared as a child that he would hurt my mother. These men don't realise how even children can see and be traumatised by how they treat our mother. My mother is the strongest person I know and I would choose her in every lifetime. I'm so sorry you had to go through all of this but you're a wonderful mum.
2026-10-09 16:27:50
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lara.cc2
Lara Cc :
This actually reminds me of my father. Guess what ? He’s old and alone now, because this is how he chose to treat the women ( his wife and daughters )that loved him the most. Thank you Karma. 😁
2026-10-09 19:44:14
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roxanne_km
Roxanne Martens 🇦🇺 :
And the truth is that he could have left well before the children. As painful as it would have been for you at the time, he could have said- family life is not for me, I don’t think I love you enough for us to continue living together. Heartbreaking, but honest. And you both could have moved forward respectfully.
2026-10-10 01:19:43
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deejisaurus
Khadija Ahmed Osman :
It’s very sad learning how easily you can be tricked by a bad man. I always thought I’d know ick was being manipulated because I’d come from a rough place in childhood and while I learnt a lot I was still not prepared and was taken advantage of by a man who wanted to make use of me.
2026-10-09 16:41:08
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emmab858
Emma :
I had the best example of a good man in my amazing dad who was a single parent for a time......but STILL ended up with a narcissist who treated me like dirt! Free of him now but scary how many of them there are out there. Now a mum of 3 sons & determined my boys will not treat women badly.
2026-10-09 16:28:23
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blabla852927
MamabearKK85 :
I still get surprised and that’s the hardest part accepting they chose to be that way 😏 as they never behaved like that with anyone else 👏
2026-10-10 06:20:50
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mirandasays89
Miranda :
You are just incredible and so so so strong
2026-10-09 21:22:24
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fashiongurlie7
Gracie :
It’s so common it’s scary!!
2026-10-15 07:51:15
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timbuckland1
tjbland :
As a man (Dad to two adult daughters) who’s followed your experience I’m appalled at how some men treat women. Having escaped a relationship with a Covert Narcissistic female 3 years ago, it isn’t just men though. She was calculating and manipulating beyond belief.😫
2026-10-10 08:06:58
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jennscottmcc
JennScottMcC :
It serves all men as well, because the men who do half and don’t step on women are viewed like saints for doing what is the bare minimum expected of women
2026-10-12 08:05:51
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ghhostwriter
I Create :
I think he was always like that, you loved him more I think.
2026-10-12 05:27:57
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lizziedags
lizziedags :
Correct
2026-10-10 02:04:56
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itsmekellsbells
Kelly :
"Choosing to treat people terribly in order to feel better" = 100% narcissist
2026-10-09 18:22:13
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jellypianist
jelly pianist :
I know your girls are going to be just fine. But how tragic that it took him having two children for him to figure out he didn't fancy being a parent.
2026-10-09 17:07:02
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seanadam841
seanadam841 :
I just find it morally repugnant that he followed you to make a life he didn’t want. Even if he thought he did, he must have realised long before the children he didn’t and leave. Very selfish.
2026-10-10 08:33:04
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sheilabeesty
sheilabeesty :
he is a complete and utter Narcisist
2026-10-11 20:18:51
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janehurley66
Janie :
They truly are selfish little you know what. Men who are bad fathers she would never have been allowed to have children in the first place. The thing I regret most of my life is having my ex as the father of my child. I think I’m lucky though because he lived in Australia and when we were in the UK.
2026-10-10 22:36:24
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twin_mumma
Strudders :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-10-11 11:02:44
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