@vernac.ular: I don’t care who you are. What you’re going through is valid and it matters. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. And it’s not just women who do this btw, men AND women will make jokes about this. Don’t be like them; be better. Much love ❤️‍🔥

fujin :

“Men used to go to war” as a female college student is a conservative oxymoron in itself 😭

marshum😓 :

i HATE the term ‘men used to go to war’ it’s so idiotic

Miro :

And those women prob don’t even realize the their actively supporting the patriarchy

itwerkphones🤱 :

A lot of women can’t understand men can have feelings too for some reason 😭😭

🪶Ugo ☀️ :

Future therapists btw

basilspring__ :

"men used to go to war" good! now mothers and grandmothers don't need to grieve their dead sons and grandsons! now wives and children don't need to grieve their dead husbands and fathers! now sisters don't need to grieve their dead brothers! i fucking hate that phrase so much because it's so dehumanizing.

yawn :

brother I broke up with a girl and she ripped into me like 20 times for having depression, some of these women are awful

NaturalNoodles :

In a psych class and that’s their opinion on men expressing their emotions?! I hope none of them want to become therapists. Because they will get some male clients and those poor clients don’t need to be treated that way

Herbert Dewayne Brandon EashIV :

"Men used to go to war" - same people who don't want war to happen

grummagrubbacrum :

"men use to go to war" because they thought shi was sugar and cookies

Justt_suzie :

No but it is ridiculous, depression is not just sadness what

Bmorp :

Yet they always claim they want men that are “emotionally intelligent” 💀

⋆˚࿔ 𝐳𝐚𝐞 ᥫ᭡˚⋆ :

if y'all are in a course for mental health, the guys there are going to be there for a reason omfg we've come full circle with mental health. now when anyone talks about something they're struggling with, everyone's knee-jerk reaction is "you people can't do anything" or something about fixing things/going to war if you're a man. people would rather have a moment to reference a stupid joke than actually have an ounce of empathy

Meglonic :

Thats exactly why i keep any sorta weakness under lock and key. Im never letting another person know what actually hurts me. Ppl are cruel bastards and i simply refuse to trust anybody else with my vulnerabilities; they will always use them against you whenever theyre angry with you, callously. Ppl are far too impulsive for me to ever really trust with that. Thats why i mull over my words long before i ever say them; i refuse to be a callous, careless and vain person.

buni :

Cuz their life is near perfect they never experienced struggle or being mocked or any reason to feel shame about yourself or be depressed

Bdta67 :

Depression is the most soul crushing shit and it’s hardly ever taken seriously by the general public until it’s too late.

⸸ :

Oh my god this reminds me of when a psych student or wtv shamed me for knowing I had DID back when I was a kid like?? Cuz apparently it's rare as hell, so yeah, underreported, means I can't exist? It's disgusting behaviour. It's really painful to be going through it. Stay strong and safe man. We care

Fortnite_scientists :

Paduk's cousin, Pavel :

People have lacked empathy for so long and unfortunately so many also see it as weakness.

Colin :

Thermonuclear truth bomb

Gartgallery :

W profile pic brother

Zelda234 :

"Hmmm, why do men not tell us they're depressed or tired anymore?"

Peeinthatbutt :

Everyone sucks tbh

halo🌙✨️ :

the world has become so heartless

MannyDe :

How manage to go to war and women used to be barefoot pregnant in the kitchen times changed what a rude comment they made and how many women back then were even in World War II go to college.