@theechevydrivingsparky: Everybody’s saying dating isn’t worth it anymore. But is it because people are tired of getting hurt, or because healthy relationships require compromise, accountability, and putting someone besides yourself first sometimes? Maybe it’s both. I’m genuinely curious what everybody thinks?. 👀 #DatingInYour40s #ModernDating #RelationshipTalk #Accountability #419
The latter. I think People are looking for instant gratification. And relationships take time, effort and compromise
2026-10-09 21:42:17
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💜~Bree~💜 :
It is MOST worth it ❤️
2026-10-10 04:12:31
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Lauren :
Everyone wants easy, no one thinks that relationships take work anymore. I also feel like it’s the stage of life. Dating in your 40s is not like dating in your 20s. People have work, lives, kids, and in my experience, the men I encounter don’t necessarily want to be a part of my whole life, just bits and pieces. I also feel like I have put in the work, but it’s not reciprocated. I’m not afraid of compromise, I’m not afraid of a relationship… but I am afraid of losing myself for another human being again.
2026-10-10 07:06:12
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Sarah V :
me too
so many fake people out there
2026-10-09 21:48:08
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Janeille Bullock :
because alot of people suck...
2026-10-09 21:03:19
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inked.enigma :
Tired of getting my heart hurt. no one seems to want anything serious anymore.
2026-10-09 21:19:47
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Triggs77 :
If you don't take the chance, then you are not going to find your person. Date, have fun. Give it your best shot! I still believe in love!
2026-10-09 21:46:38
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LoriProvoncha17 :
People are so fake and nobody wants to be honest,loyal,trustworthy and have healthy communication.Old school love doesn’t exist anymore it’s sad .The ride or die kind of love .I have a huge heart and nobody I’ve found has a heart like mine.So I gave up .❤️
2026-10-09 22:14:34
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smarty :
🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰...lets
2026-10-09 20:59:02
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Brianne :
Because it bites me in the ass every time.
2026-10-09 21:50:58
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Cheryl :
Most people don’t want to work for anything. Won’t compromise run hot then cold people are doing the bare minimum and expecting way more in return. I’m NOT ever pouring my cup into someone’s cup who isn’t pouring into mine Ever again. Too old for games. But. Happy Friday
2026-10-09 23:14:32
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Sarah Dixie :
Dating requires work . I also think people think they are going to find the right one the first time. You gotta put yourself out there and kiss a few frogs 🐸
2026-10-09 21:46:11
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Nikki :
I think its a combination of both. People are exhausted from being hurt, and that pain has made them less willing to invest the heavy emotional labor required for a healthy relationship
2026-10-09 21:03:21
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Nikki :
scammed, ppl already in relationships, married, or want to party, party, party
2026-10-09 21:08:02
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Hannah :
Too many treat you like an option and not a choice. It’s hard to find someone who genuinely wants real connection and not play games. Once your heart has been broken a time or two, it’s hard to break your walls down again.
2026-10-10 01:12:03
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Julie :
Start talking to someone and then poof they are gone. Just wasting my time.😩
2026-10-09 21:13:41
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Jen Soto :
Because pouring your entire heart into someone for them to crush it into powder isn’t worth it anymore stay single all we need is a dog
2026-10-09 21:13:42
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esnyder76 :
Scammers unfaithful no loyalty
2026-10-09 21:05:51
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