@denizakana: One of the unexpected parts of healing is empathy fatigue and the guilt that comes with it. You become more aware of unhealthy patterns, and things you once had endless patience for can suddenly feel exhausting or even triggering. It’s almost as if your empathy switch flips. Your mind starts protecting the peace you’ve worked so hard to find, leaving you with less emotional capacity to carry other people’s struggles. And then comes the guilt. You wonder if you’ve become less compassionate, when really, you may just be emotionally exhausted. You’re not necessarily losing your empathy. You’re learning that you can care about someone without carrying their pain. And you don’t need to feel guilty for protecting your peace. #empathyfatigue #HealingJourney #selfawareness #MentalHealthAwareness #emotionalhealing

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officialmgma
MGMA :
Because when you realize that you create your own problems (like 65-80% of the time) then you start to not understand or feel bad for people who continually repeat the same harmful patterns
2026-10-18 19:50:08
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kandiccee
kandiccee :
it feels so good tho. i truly do not care about other peoples problems. i didn’t know i could feel this free
2026-10-18 16:38:55
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brooke.rose.23
🌸Brooke.rose.diary🌸 :
I’ve healed so much that I only care about animals
2026-10-18 18:17:36
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sarahscissorhands
sarahscissorhands :
My healing brought me closer to other people and more empathetic and I prefer this flavor of healed
2026-10-21 01:47:31
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solayroze
solayroze :
Oh so that’s why I don’t fw with half my family now
2026-10-18 17:10:45
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marisketchbook
☆ mari ☆ :
Omg it makes me feel like the biggest b in the universe
2026-10-18 20:49:10
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xparanormalplaygroundx
sapphire🌈👻🖤 :
Because if you help them and they’re not ready I PROMISE they bring YOU down. I’m such a hermit and so happy
2026-10-20 02:09:08
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tankajahariwouldnever222
tankajahariwouldnever222 :
I'm still learning that there is a difference between caring and carrying someone else's pain for them, it's just hard not to feel guilty when people have become so accustomed to me carrying it for them
2026-10-18 16:50:07
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latigerr_
LaTigerr :
And once I realized that I cannot heal them as no one could heal me but ME. I just deposit hope into their spirit and skeedadle to my bubble ✌🏾
2026-10-21 00:54:11
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dommypickles
dommythickles :
Faaaahhh hahahah this hit 🎯
2026-10-21 01:02:18
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murcnicki
Nicole :
I like it here 31 years late but I like it like this
2026-10-21 00:39:05
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salty_sopran0
salty_sopran0 :
I stopped caring about people when I realized most people are their own problem
2026-10-21 00:36:21
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designedbyneilaurei
Nei Laurei | Designer✨ :
Oh that’s what it’s called😩
2026-10-19 04:35:17
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leroyh3
Leroy :
I’m so done being nice 😭 most people don’t deserve my niceness
2026-10-18 20:48:29
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ikulovemr
Homebody🤷🏽‍♀️🤎 ᥫ᭡ :
As someone who takes antidepressants/ anxiety meds, being around people who refuse to take their meds/ communicate with their physicians is just not an option anymore
2026-10-19 04:31:20
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cherrycola6666
bunny :
Ugh I have this w my own parents
2026-10-18 18:09:32
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rinagerstner
Rina ❤️‍🔥 :
and then I feel terrible
2026-10-18 14:04:54
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abconetwothreedoremi
abconetwothreedoremi :
Honestly, I kind of love it. I am happy to stop doing and being everything for everyone aside from myself. The right people will understand and I finally have faith in that.
2026-10-15 23:33:45
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thandi22222
Champagne Thandi :
Me cutting people off because they KEEP doing stupid things and thinking I need to be apart of the repercussions of their continued stupid actions! 😭
2026-10-19 20:18:50
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waddelll
B :
Oh so the opposite happened to me, I’m overwhelmingly empathetic now
2026-10-18 20:02:50
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yayakoutur3.x
yaya piñata :
That is why I’m switching my major from Nursing to something else. I just don’t have the empathy and patience anymore 🥲 I feel bad saying that sometimes because I love and care for people lots, but I don’t think I am mentally do it anymore
2026-10-18 15:03:58
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jocelyn_m77
Jocelyn Mata :
This is scary bc how tf did this land on my fyp after hours of crying and not being able to explain this lmao
2026-10-20 03:34:53
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lilxmilxx
Lils 🍸 :
uh i don’t think i could ever not care- specially for strangers. now my sister- she’s losing me on that but like? damn, idk if yall are healed or just shut down.
2026-10-20 04:17:31
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moradimanor
MELANIE MORADI ★ :
real af also i love your tattoos
2026-10-20 05:17:39
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rednovasoul
Stevan :
Is that what im feeling cause DAWG
2026-10-19 00:46:12
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