@pearl.candy1: This song isn't a love song. It's a tutorial. "How You Get The Girl" — Taylor's literally writing a step-by-step guide for a boy who messed up. "Tell her how you must have lost your mind… never told her why." She's saying: admit you were wrong. Don't make excuses. And here's the genius part — the song is called "How You GET The Girl," but she keeps singing "That's how you LOST the girl." She makes him say the painful truth out loud before he earns her back.#howyougetthegirl #theerastourtaylorswift #Swiftie #TaylorSwift