@anxiouslyalej: The silent treatment and withdrawing your energy are two different things. One is an act of centering the person who has hurt you and the other is an act of centering yourself. The reason the silent treatment feels empty is because it is only meaningful if you have “successfully” set up the other person to feel the way you felt which is usually.. powerless. You are still watching them like a hawk and it feels empty. Withdrawing your energy without warning is about making the independent decision that you will not stand in the way of this person and their choices. This is about deciding this situation is no longer worth the time and energy you have been giving it. if you wanna learn how to master this, comment ‘STRICT’ and I’ll DM you the link to my Masterclass 🩷 Keywords: silent treatment vs. Withdrawing your energy, boundaries in relationships, consequences over conversations, dating advice for women, relationship psychology, how to stop people pleasing, self respect in dating, dating advice for women #womensdatingadvice #feminineenergy #datingforwomen #avoidantattachment #relationships

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chelsiecreelman
Chelsie Creelman :
or you have just cut them out period, for your own energy
2026-10-10 02:33:27
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leticiasanchez2164
Tishe :
My husband tries to give me the silent treatment so I give him his space and go shopping go hang out with my grandbabies or go out ans have a nice dinner. Than he says he punishes himself. I do not cater to silent tantrums or any type of tantrum
2026-10-13 05:45:08
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k.mac.22
🪺 k e r r y 🐺🎙️ :
No, I go quiet because I’m tired of dealing with their sh*t. 😆
2026-10-11 03:54:16
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karmic.lessons
Abby 🌪 :
Incorrect I’ve gone quiet because they have gone quiet and I refuse to chase anyone I’m not doing the work for two people in a relationship not everybody plays games
2026-10-10 12:24:05
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vancouver232
Freeatlast🇨🇦 :
I go quiet when I leave. They no longer have access to me
2026-10-11 22:03:22
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aboutchange0
Thinking1234 :
If I go quiet, its because I need peace.
2026-10-13 19:13:19
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siangard
Sian 🇦🇺 :
Finally did this and it feels GREAT! Highly recommend not putting up with rubbish behaviour. Break a boundary of mine, I move on. Act like a douche, done. Don’t care. Gone and only care about what’s good for me.
2026-10-13 18:07:49
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ogborderline
OverTheBorderline :
What is the difference between suddenly giving someone the silent treatment and withdrawing your energy without warning?
2026-10-12 21:53:59
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501iartsun
𝕀ℝ𝕐-ℕ𝔸 𝟙.𝟝 𝔻𝕀𝕄ℙ𝕃𝔼𝕊 :
Blocking is withdrawal or silent treatment? 🤔
2026-10-12 10:19:42
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holdilockstm
Holdi-Locks :
If used for more than the time it takes to gather thoughts of how to calmly communicate grievences, it is a total discard. when the silent treatment goes on for days, get out. It is nothing more than abuse. Mature people should know how to debate issues without the overbearing disdane.
2026-10-11 02:30:55
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