@anxiouslyalej: Link in bio for 1:1 coaching and masterclass 🩷 Strict women attract devoted partners because they set the example. The women in the happiest relationships never made him the exception. He had to keep working for her like everybody else, and that is exactly why he goes to the ends of the earth for her. Say what you want about these women, they are always going to get what they want. They put themselves first, they make themselves happy, and they aren’t changing for anybody. That’s polarity. Everybody wants to be magnetic and nobody wants to be polarizing, but standing for something and refusing to fold easily is the exact thing that makes her so attractive. If this is you, repost it and let it say exactly what it says about you. Keywords: strict women, how to be treated like a queen, standards and boundaries in relationships, polarity in dating, feminine energy, anxious attachment healing, how to run a strict program, self worth in relationships, dating coach for women, She’s Strict #shesstrict #relationships #datingadvice #feminineenergy #datingforwomen

Hey :

This is 1000% true. I’m in my 40’s and my husband’s behavior toward me changed 10+ years after getting married the moment I started putting myself first and making him chase me again. Men NEED to be constantly chasing or they get complacent, treat you like their mother, or cheat. Young ladies, learn this early!

(˶˃ ᵕ ˂˶) :

I’ve been with my partner for over a year we got together young when i didn’t know any of this and am looking to change our dynamic. Any advice?

Ants…….🐜 🐜 :

My husband is happy to do anything to keep me happy. I am definitely his Queen

. :

Need to climb back up on the pedestal. I've slowly started to slip off...

Tricia Takanawa :

You have honestly changed my life

ShSa :

Stay toxic ladies! 😏

Clarissa🩷 :

I was polarizing at the workplace and it attracted the wrong attention (i.e married men) and people in my team find me too different or quiet... its hard to be polarizing in places where being likeable matters ...

Mrs. Olvera 👑🌹✨ :

I stay on that pedestal

RAH :

My husband calls me the queen of boundaries & he is exactly where he wants to be

Sherry Ranea :

I had a 25 year marriage that I blamed him for falling out of love. I mow take some responsibility for that. I did so much for him that he put himself on the pedestal and began to think he was amazing and could do better and started cheating on me. A man does anything for you. you think hes amazing A woman does something for a man he thinks I must be amazing. The way to keep a man is to create some tiny problems for him to work on all the time. Be quiet. and just tell him what you want and wait. that's it!

JennLa777🇨🇦 :

I kind of only relate to half of your stuff like I do believe I deserve to be loved well but I am not bitchy or mean I don’t demand high expensive things. I do cherish thoughtfulness and him remembering things and being sweet I like to do cute things for him like I’ll spend a while making him a gift but like I don’t clean for him or do the stuff he’s supposed to be doing for herself of course I’ll help out if there’s circumstances, but I have my own life. I need to take care of. I think this is a healthier way and this is a natural normal way for me without overthinking.

cashy :

didnt let my guards down and thats how I walked away when it was time to

Ythira Kamau🇰🇪🇦🇪🇬🇧 :

Girl, I love this . I even followed you 🥰

m and m :

I give this woman everything… just about anything she needs and wants. But I getting told I’m not doing enough

Jes | faith • lifestyle • home :

I'm not married, but for me? God, me (with exceptions of my child) my child, my partner. 💅🏽

kmartinez11 :

Yessssss 🙋🏽‍♀️

gandabhie :

YES

kelley519 :

Jess Bc 🌹 :

how do you do this if you are starting late and have 3 boys and a husband?

ruby :

how do you behave on the pedestal?

SugarT :

Yes this is so true!

Mirna Gomez :

I agree, it’s good to have a life of your own. It allows you both to miss each other.

Mide :

yup

🌙🌻Christina🌺🦋 :

Okay

exlovergirl_carissa1 :

Yes! And you look beautiful [Red heart]