@her_mind_speaks: There is a dark side that happens when the wound of wanting to be chosen sets on fire….and it will keep you glued to people you don’t even like….#anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment

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shelletto
_s….. :
It turns you crazy tbh
2026-10-10 13:40:57
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jinxxthecreator
jinxxthecreator🪭 :
You will always feel that empty or confusion
2026-10-11 00:33:14
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velluli
Velluli :
What to do when you’re never chosen in your entire life?
2026-10-10 20:43:11
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shenaniganswshan
ShenaniganswShan :
Yup! My ex turned me into someone I didn’t even know existed. Now I’m with someone who regulates my nervous system and I feel so at peace
2026-10-10 17:22:03
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talibana503melendez0
Talibana503melendez :
Run away
2026-10-10 23:12:08
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crybabylexxxx
crybabylexx :
Thank you for this .. even though it's truthful that he's a huge cause of my trauma and reactions, I don't want to allow him to change the good in my heart. I don't want to act in ways that aren't me no matter what. Hugs, you are helping many with posts like this. ♥️
2026-10-11 00:45:42
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clementinecottage
clementinecottage :
I have a 3 month rule. If he’s showing lack of effort at that point then I cut him out my life and move on
2026-10-10 18:03:38
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mnklux
Mona Sanchez :
I still can’t eat properly
2026-10-11 00:51:50
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precioushaav
Precious ✨♋️❤️ :
Please next time, hold my hands ma’am.
2026-10-11 01:09:14
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user3593817435658
Me :
He nvr chooses me😮‍💨
2026-10-10 23:39:13
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brookeisbetter
brooklyn :
you just woke me up
2026-10-10 17:43:12
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fitwithnikkie
FitWithNikkie | Gymsavvy :
Been there... NEVER again.
2026-10-10 17:33:18
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loftygoals
LoftyGoals :
Who sent you 😭😂😂😂 who told you about my life
2026-10-10 13:33:02
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helewim
Helewim💐 :
Embarrassed to say but yes 😞🙈
2026-10-10 13:16:50
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iamkaelatlas
Kael Atlas :
Experience this past year.. went completely crazy! Blocking is the only solution
2026-10-10 18:28:18
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madds.santamaria
Madds Santa :
You didn’t even hold my hand first
2026-10-10 19:24:10
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donnechan
Risky 🇺🇬🇸🇪 :
anger and confused.
2026-10-10 19:14:28
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_babychristian
Babychristuan@ :
Sounds like a demon or evil spirit or torment. Pray against it
2026-10-10 21:06:34
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jil2hozbv
Jil_Hozen :
Reminds me of my ex, who lied and did whatever he could to keep me. And I believed him. Until i realised he is an empty vessel and nothing like he pretended to be the entire time I’ve known him. What a shame.
2026-10-10 21:45:36
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appleuser6334957
Apple User633495 :
I was there for 4,5 years. The breadcrumbs felt like a whole relationship, yet 98% was in my head. I couldn’t stop fantasizing, and yet I wanted to end the whole dynamic, but the limerence object kept contacting me, which made me feel ”okay maybe this time?!”. It was extremely addictive. I have an addictive personality, so stopping nicotine, coffee and sugar was EASIER than limerence. Nothing gives that HIGH than what went on for 4,5 years, but there was such a shadow behind that, feeling extremely isolated and lonely because I couldn’t connect with anyone else. The self esteem was all time low too. It was perverted and a pathetic time in my life. I finally ended it november 2023 and it’s the best addiction I had ever stopped. I can’t believe that I can look at the same man and be like ”yuck, his behavior suck”.
2026-10-10 17:53:56
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_prettyfati
_prettyfati :
Wow I really needed this broken down. This is exactly how I feel it’s so hard
2026-10-10 11:19:45
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eloquentdreamer
Kat :
Yep. Going through this right now.
2026-10-10 12:47:17
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lia_lia_lia24
🖤lil.lia🖤 :
I'm in the depths of this exact thing right now. I'm ashamed at myself 😭
2026-10-10 15:27:54
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billthefkrill
Mr. Take a load of this guy :
It’s such a misalignment to who I am
2026-10-10 21:35:30
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ejembaurie
ejembaurie :
This sounds so dangerous. And I mean for both parties. Why would you be so desperate for someone else's attention ?
2026-10-10 12:21:25
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