@lifecoachshawn: 🎥: @Van shares what it’s like being with a man who treats you right and the men aren’t happy about it. Here’s why I think so many of them were triggered by her video. #Dating #DatingTips #DatingAdvice #Boyfriend #Girlfriend

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pamelamars0
Pamela Mars :
Do they not realise men who love to cook exist?
2026-10-10 15:18:18
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athenaisalibra2
AthenaisaLibra :
but aren't most head chefs at restaurants MEN ??🤔😳
2026-10-10 20:41:49
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hellurhallar
hellurhallar :
They keep contradicting themselves.
2026-10-10 15:05:46
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titupbuttercup
titupbuttercup :
I grew up with my dad who cooked, cleaned and worked and chopped wood to heat the house and taught us everything. But I married a troll who wanted a traditional wife. I wanted a partner.
2026-10-10 15:24:42
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liz.sobeautiful
lizsobeautiful :
My father cooked, so I expect my man to be able to cook a meal. PERIOD
2026-10-10 19:17:53
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nivegirl92
nice girl :
that man is happy to make his wife happy.....
2026-10-10 15:33:46
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rickywalkes
Ricky Trotman :
some people are miserable and don't know what real love is
2026-10-10 15:06:51
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pinkbicyclefish
Damn Gina :
My dad worships the ground my mom walks on. They’re been married 61 years. I grew up watching him love her so hard. I’m single bc my standard was so high
2026-10-11 12:34:55
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izabellaquartz
Iz :
My man just wants me in the kitchen to keep him company while he cooks, which he does happily because he enjoys it. That man looks happy and is enjoying himself, even asking his partner to sing with him. Why are they so upset to see another man happy doing more than the bare minimum?
2026-10-13 15:25:38
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kerig1
kg :
him just happily dancing away in the kitchen 💕
2026-10-10 15:16:58
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ay__poppy
ConfessionsOfAShopaholic :
It’s always were a “partnership” until it’s time for them to show up in the role of a partner.
2026-10-13 09:50:49
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onyxgoddesskesha
Kesha🇺🇸⚖️🪄🦄🧿 :
Spirits allow every Kesha be aligned with this kind of love ASHE
2026-10-12 08:20:20
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chayreads
Chay 📚🎧 :
The ones complaining about this guy cooking for her are the same ones that say they're "protectors and providers". They're jealous of him doing what they claim they are
2026-10-12 02:18:08
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hrod0705
⭐️ Heather ⭐️ :
When will they realize that in this day and age we don’t need their money, their house or their name to be able to thrive and survive. We are impressed by effort and consideration. Make my life better, and let me do the same for you, or see yourself out. 👏👏👏
2026-10-10 15:03:16
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writtenwoman
🪶 *stares indigenously* :
it's really so true. men get LIVID when my husband gets up and starts doing dishes when we visit people's houses. they will try so hard to bully him and seeth with spite when he just laughs it off and continues to do the dishes while I have a drink with the ladies who are always enamoured. he's done wonders for raising my friends' standards simply by existing near the males they have around.
2026-10-12 22:19:21
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pabrielka
★Pabriela★ :
glad my man is normal and hates social media (his only digital footprint is on my account😅) I'm pregnant and jobless and he works 10hrs/day so I usually do the housework like dishes (his skin starts to peel after washing them, he still does it if I have school on weekends and he is free) but he ALWAYS cooks for me when he gets home from work🥰. I enjoy baking but LOATHE cooking, same with vacuuming or doing the house work that requires even a bit more strength- it's not like I can't do those things, he just feels obligated to do them, same with normal gentlemanly gestures
2026-10-10 15:17:37
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4b_bear
4B_Bear :
My husband does all the dishes no matter who cooks, all the laundry, and all the mopping 😁😁😁😁😁 My dad HATES it so I try to mention it as much ad possible!
2026-10-11 16:55:52
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herman14773
Zack✖️ :
The Peace You Keep Giving Away made me realize how often I was overexplaining myself just because I was scared someone might misunderstand me. That one really stayed with me.
2026-10-11 19:09:48
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christinecrespo8
Christine Crespo :
They think regular life skills like cooking and cleaning up after yourself is “woman’s work”.
2026-10-10 20:08:04
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tiktokprotectspdfs
Bannedbostonbella2.0 :
These guys making those types of comments meanwhile want a wife or g/f to be their mommy cleaning, cooking and picking up after them.
2026-10-10 23:06:18
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debbie_teashon_author
Debbie :
They're jealous. That man cooking has a woman, and they don't.
2026-10-12 04:33:13
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latay1493
Latay93 :
And that's why more women are choosing to be single. It's not worth it anymore.
2026-10-10 15:10:27
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jenniferorcutt795
Grandma Jenn :
My dad was a cook, and did most of the cooking at home, too! What I wouldn’t do for another plate of his smothered pork chops and rice! 🤤
2026-10-10 15:56:14
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popeyesstanaccount
Killa Kam🩵 :
Buddy called MJB Keyshia but dammit he is a green flag!😂😂
2026-10-11 06:10:04
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traceyamanda84
TraceyAmanda84 :
Not only do they despise seeing women being treated well they also despise seeing a man who very clearly is incredibly happy in his relationship. Men will see men like this, who adore their partner, are in love and very happy and swear up and down that he’s either miserable or a simp. It’s like men don’t want to see anyone happy.
2026-10-10 20:45:46
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