Jon Davis | Dating Strategist
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Saturday 10 October 2026 17:10:43 GMT
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Luis Miguel Oleaga :
Have to find someone with the same values
2026-10-10 20:00:59
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MashenkaM :
That’s why we choose dad bodies 😭
2026-10-11 08:53:00
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Nicholas August368 :
This is why you partner up with someone who lives a similar lifestyle. My wife and I eat chicken and rice together. We both workout. She lets me do what I gotta do. She does what she has to do. And we show up and love each other better when our time comes together. But it helps when you workout together sometimes and eat the same things. We meal prep together every Saturday night. And we’ve been happily married for three years and together 8! Never been happier in my life. Fun is doing healthy stuff together!
2026-10-11 06:16:51
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Ashley Nicole Floyd :
I’m a fit person, but I’m also able to enjoy my life. The other person in this scenario isn’t demanding their day to day life change and that’s where the bread and butter of your health and fitness lies anyways. Spending quality time not in a gym while you’re on vacation together is not an unreasonable ask, nor is ordering take out here and there. Asking someone to drink even though they don’t is unreasonable but the other scenarios are not.. It’s actually pretty unhealthy being that rigid and restrictive and people disguise this as ‘discipline’. One could argue it can be a form of self harm as I’ve come to realize during my life. I became self aware of that and now I enjoy life and surprise my fit body still stayed around even though I can relax and enjoy different foods in my life when I want to. Life is short, eat some chips n queso once in awhile if it makes you feel good 💜💫
2026-10-11 02:10:26
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Carole Steinberg :
They always want to go to restaurants. I like my own food better.
2026-10-10 20:55:04
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Heather D ❌ :
I don't mind the discipline with the food and I agree with the no alcohol. in my experience when dating a very fit man he is in the gym all the time! no free time because all free hours are in the gym. that does not make a good relationship.
2026-10-11 10:59:51
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Dovein :
I’ve been surprised at the negative comments I have gotten from friends and family for being consistent going to the gym and lifting while complementing how I look. It’s really weird
2026-10-12 11:19:47
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blan neslon :
Easy fix. My first date is always a 5k run.
2026-10-12 03:53:16
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Naki :
I know they must hate me fr lol... I don't drink, I work out on vacation and I stopped attending birthday dinners etc because I dont eat late. I need someone in this lifestyle.
2026-10-11 11:17:53
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nananpeppe :
My husband and I eat separate meals🤷🏻♀️
2026-10-10 18:46:40
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lixziexx :
💯 this is why I’ll just stay single till I find someone that’s on the same mindset as me 😌 so there’s no argument or resentment well want the same things and eat the same
2026-10-11 21:10:48
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Marley :
100% true
2026-10-10 23:02:15
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@London :
they love a spotless white shirt but not the responsibility that comes with maintaining that whiteness
2026-10-12 09:14:20
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Mara Cat :
I am completely agree 😐
2026-10-11 03:46:14
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SpirituallyYoung71 :
Yep. I’ll just stay single. If I’m on vacation and a guy asks me if I want pizza at midnight he has to go
2026-10-11 22:16:16
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Leeann❌ :
And we all die anyway
2026-10-11 00:56:35
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debbie :
This is why I have no friends
2026-10-10 23:32:16
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Mediajky :
There is a healthy mid point.
2026-10-11 09:22:16
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Salome Obscura :
i really dont get that kind of people... like sure, I wouldnt magically stop making bad decisions for myself, only because my Partner is disciplined, but i wouldnt ever ask him to stop... like hell if I want takeout, i can get it, while he still eats his checken with Rice.. if he wants to train while vacation, ill get myself a book and wait for him, if he doesnt wanna drink, fine, he can drive and take care of me while I do, if he wants to join anyway... if not i can just go with the girls 🥰
2026-10-11 10:25:37
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SteveLTRFunding :
So what is interesting about everything you are saying is that it doesn’t only apply to keeping in shape. It also applies to the entrepreneurial lifestyle or likely any other discipline. Everyone loves the results, but they find the process that it takes to get there unpalatable.
2026-10-10 19:33:19
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Nathan Beitler :
This is true. The same thing can be said of financial well-being. People love it when they know the person they are dating is doing well financially. But when they get into a relationship with a person like that, they resent strict, budgeting, and saving and long hours of hard work and not just randomly splurging on things. Most people just aren’t very disciplined, and they can knock heads with people who are.
2026-10-11 11:49:32
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Zeta Ray :
This goes both ways!
2026-10-11 02:45:10
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joeparadiso7 :
You can do all those things a partner has suggested and still be a fit person . Unless you’re in competition at the time it really wouldn’t matter if you did have a little FUN .
2026-10-11 03:56:26
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Kimberly Rockstarr :
Im fit and displined and I don't even like it
2026-10-10 20:10:39
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Nikki Lynne :
For me, it’s the other person thinking that if they date me, they will become better because of me so instead of a partner, I turn into their life, coach or trainer. When it doesn’t work out for them because they don’t have that discipline then my lifestyle becomes annoying.
2026-10-10 22:44:06
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