And ps, real friends will support you no matter the distance :)
2026-10-11 05:59:19
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Unbreakableminsett :
sometimes you need to change your environment for real
2026-10-10 20:50:39
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Brook :
“You can’t change the people around you, but you can change the people around you.”
2026-10-11 14:45:33
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missingvm :
My ex taught me the great separation, she taught me that I am not ready for a relationship , not ready to live alone , not ready to commit . I realised this when she left me because I really did self reflect , now I’m trying to become the man that I need to be. I still miss her everyday , and hopefully when our paths cross again , we will be both better for each other - I’m 22 and my name is Seb - The great separation explanation is amazing.
2026-10-10 19:08:21
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italianmom55 :
Truth! But this happens in many phases of life. Coming from a 55 year old 😏🥰
2026-10-11 15:37:25
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Sarahi :
Once they see you wanting better for yourself they grow resentment towards you.. I’ve always said it’s more rewarding being a lone wolf than in a pack filled with inauthenticity or growth 😊
2026-10-10 18:21:27
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Jack :
now 26 been going through it for awhile. My old friends just dont get it, its unfortunate
2026-10-10 22:13:18
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iCapri 😘 :
Some people don’t figure this out until their 40s
2026-10-10 22:25:13
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pavleenbajwa :
My best friend always says that some people are meant to be in your life for a season, and some for multiple seasons and that’s stuck with me. Either way, don’t allow yourself to become complacent. Complacency means lack of growth & you are who you surround yourself with.
2026-10-10 21:10:15
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shatapboy :
How many great separation do i have to go thru ☠️
2026-10-11 03:03:21
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StrawberryBlond :
This will happen many times in your life. We are never firmly feet on the ground. Your friends will change with Jon changes. Relationship statues. Babies. Children. Children’s sports. Then the kids leave and you once again are recreating yourself. Then you age. Have grand kids. Separating from your old self again and recreating. Then parents lost. Then friends lost. Partners lost. Siblings lost. Kids taking care of you instead of you taking care of them. There is no one great separation. This is just the ebb and flow of life from beginning to end.
2026-10-12 11:27:30
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Nik 🐦⬛ :
I believe the age of great separation can be extended to 20-46. I’m 46 and still go thru that separation. People will marry, divorce, change careers, change friends, etc. I found at my age that less people evolve and that contributes to more separation and even isolation.
2026-10-10 19:33:35
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tiagobejar :
Did it at 17
2026-10-10 20:31:14
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Belly :
U can still be friends w them u just have ur own path too. I still have friends from childhood. We went different directions but we still get together a few times a year. Feel like this generation gives up so easily on people
2026-10-11 17:04:37
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Emmanuel ACL :
Sadly this only equats to Americans cus here in Africa as a man you start thinking this way from as early as 10 years, most of us don’t even get the luxury of enjoying life at an early age, we just smile and push through it.
2026-10-10 21:41:34
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gy💓 :
The point you realize you are in the wrong circles because we all have different ambitions
2026-10-11 10:14:15
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Theresa Lunsford :
Oh how do I tell you this?!? This will happen many times in your journey. You get better at learning who to keep and who needs to be removed. Some people will be roots and some leaves. It sucks when you think someone is a root and turns out they were only a branch. This was a good life lesson you've learned it will help you with the rest.
2026-10-11 12:48:27
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ephemera_333 :
If I had to put this feeling into a song, it would be The View Between Villages (extended version) by Noah Kahan or The Big Goodbye by AJR
2026-10-12 11:51:16
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Angeles Salmeron :
omg Im going through this right now I feel like I needed this to happen so I could grow for myself, I was to much of a people pleaser and now its all about myself and my future
2026-10-11 04:09:12
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Nathan :
I'm going through it
2026-10-10 21:22:00
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m :
I would like to listen to you with out music
2026-10-10 22:24:52
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steph :
You also typically have another shift in your 30s as well
2026-10-11 01:27:56
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Biiishta :
Still love my friends I’ve grown up with so much. Just different paths of life where I’m still building for a future that I want so bad before I’m married with kids. :/ it’s tough but I want this life for me so so much.
2026-10-11 00:49:39
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Kamogelo.Kontle :
Lesson : Do you. Each man for himself and God for us all.
2026-10-11 09:09:09
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phoenixrealestate ❌ :
I think it happens a few times in life. Sorry to say. At 54, retirement goals, becoming grandparents or not, traveling, downsizing. You lose touch with a few more.
2026-10-11 04:24:13
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