@tesselynn: You can be a good person and still be a difficult person to love. Yep. I said it. You can have a good heart and still be defensive. You can love someone and still hurt them. You can have trauma and still be responsible for how you treat other people. And you can have the best intentions in the world and still need to work on yourself. Here's something I've learned over the years: Understanding WHY you behave a certain way doesn't excuse the behavior. It explains it. There's a difference. At some point, healing requires us to stop focusing exclusively on what other people did to us and start paying attention to what WE are doing, too. Not because we're terrible people. Because we're human. And humans have shit to work on. Self-awareness is important. Accountability is where change begins. And yes, that includes me. ❤️

Tesse Lynn | Life Coach

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