Bobby_Love
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Sunday 11 October 2026 05:09:10 GMT
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Bree :
Whats sad is you can send this to the man that hurt you and it doesn’t stick. 🤦🏻♀️
2026-10-11 14:03:07
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Brittney | Real Chaos & Coffee :
Preach Bobby! I love how in depth this goes and it’s accurate the whole way!
2026-10-11 14:53:43
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April Morrisey :
facts just went through all that bs he's gone and never aloud to look for me
2026-10-11 12:33:47
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💙Jo Ellen💙 :
If it doesn’t hurt you to hurt me… you are not my family, friend, or a person I welcome in my presence. 💯
2026-10-11 13:06:51
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im rosie72 @ g mail.com :
im feeling this
2026-10-11 10:24:26
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Bobby_Love :
It's hard to trust an apology when the person who betrayed you starts getting irritated that you're still affected by it. At first, you wanted nothing more than to believe them. You heard the apology, tried to make room for another chance, and hoped their actions would finally match what they promised. But the questions don't disappear just because they want the conversation over. Something changed in how safe you feel with them, and reassurance becomes part of finding that safety again. Then the frustration starts. A question about what happened turns into an argument about why you can't let it go. You notice the sigh before they answer, or how quickly they remind you they've already apologized. Eventually, you begin keeping things to yourself, afraid that needing honesty will start another fight. That's a painful place to be because now you're carrying the betrayal while trying to protect the person who caused it from feeling uncomfortable about the aftermath. Trust isn't rebuilt by convincing someone to stop talking about what hurt them. It grows when their behavior becomes dependable again, especially in moments where taking responsibility isn't easy. They might wish the past could stay behind you both, but wanting things to feel normal doesn't repair what's been damaged. You can genuinely forgive someone and still need time to feel safe. If their apology came with an expectation that you'd immediately become the same person you were before, they haven't understood how deeply their choices affected the relationship. And it's exhausting trying to heal beside someone who keeps treating your healing like another problem you're causing.
2026-10-11 05:36:45
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MyC❌ :
Hi. I wanted to say ty for making this post. I had this happen in the past, I’ve had this happen recently. It happens again & again. This post is spot on and maybe others may understand better in how what they do hurts and the cause and effect
2026-10-11 12:42:08
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Stacy’s Sanctuary ❌ :
It’s like you’re playing out the scenario when my husband told me he doesn’t talk to his ex and then I found out he was going to the shop to do it behind my back. I became the problem for finding out. He tried to tell me I was telling him who he can talk to. He tried to say he only text about their grown kids and again I was the problem for finding out it was also him wishing happy birthday and merry Christmas and such.
2026-10-11 10:09:53
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Asia Rosejaye Caldwell :
💯💯 u so on point
2026-10-11 12:31:25
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Sylvia magana :
well said
2026-10-11 06:46:26
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xxusernamegoesherexx :
I've never felt more seen.
2026-10-11 06:50:52
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Dylan Sayre :
yet I'm the only one always making the mistake
2026-10-11 06:29:34
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MERCY AND TRUTH :
This is how I feel when I try to address my family about my abuse. Hey bixby feel bad for being abused, and I know I was gone and I left everybody, but I didn't leave because I wanted to I was being held hostage. but it's okay
2026-10-11 14:18:13
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user6497654352726 :
Fastest, laziest, most avoidant path possible is his game - personality? habit? or just plain unwillingness to take any accountability?? it’s drained me to my core now! Now I just stay away - silent - Realizing lack of accountability is just asking for more of the same. Morning the living is brutal beyond belief 😣
2026-10-11 14:45:15
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mountainsky125heidii :
i know all about
2026-10-11 12:39:23
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Mary Guevara :
say it louder
2026-10-11 09:08:28
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Bobby_Love :
5 signs they apologized but resent you for still being hurt 1. They remind you they've already apologized whenever you bring up something you're still struggling to understand. 2. They get irritated when you ask for reassurance, making you feel like your need for honesty is creating another argument. 3. They expect the relationship to return to normal but become defensive when you explain how their betrayal changed your trust. 4. You start holding back questions and hiding your hurt because you're trying to avoid another negative reaction from them. 5. They want you to acknowledge their apology and move forward, but resist the patience, consistency, and uncomfortable conversations needed to rebuild what they damaged.
2026-10-11 05:36:50
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amy_curvy13 :
Thank you! Your videos make me feel seen and understood. They help me explain what happened.
2026-10-11 05:35:57
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Bobby_Love :
A look at this through the lens of biblical truth... God calls people to take responsibility for the hurt they've caused, and that includes what happens after they apologize. He teaches repentance, patience, honesty, humility, and love that cares about what another person is going through. If you've betrayed someone's trust, you have to understand that your choices affected them. They're going to have questions. They may struggle to believe you again, and rebuilding that trust can take time. God teaches us to confess our wrongdoing and turn away from it. That means taking responsibility for how you've treated someone and making a genuine effort to change. Forgiveness doesn't erase the need for that change, and love doesn't pressure someone to hurry through their pain just so everything can feel normal again. Jesus taught forgiveness, but He also taught repentance and the importance of making things right with people we've hurt. He showed compassion toward people who were suffering, and He called people to live differently. There's a reason Scripture teaches that people can be recognized by their fruit. The way someone lives and treats others gives us something to look at beyond what they say. You can tell someone you're sorry, but if you keep getting frustrated every time they need reassurance, you're making it harder for them to trust you again. Jesus taught us to love one another, and that includes being patient with someone who's hurting because of our own choices. If you genuinely want to repair the relationship, you have to be willing to help rebuild the trust your actions damaged.
2026-10-11 05:37:03
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Tammy Doyra :
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
2026-10-11 11:32:51
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Jackie 💙💙💙 :
❤️
2026-10-11 08:58:02
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Ms.Juanita🦋🪷💮 :
🤗🫂 🌹 🫂🤗
2026-10-11 05:26:51
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