Faghmeeda Benjamin🇵🇸🍉
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Sunday 11 October 2026 07:42:50 GMT
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Leila :
are you're reading this? you started saying no one is entitled to an invitation. can't we just leave it at that? my parents can go. one less function for me to attend.
2026-10-11 12:39:52
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'G' :
My Mom was always the 'poor' relative because she didn't have as much as her siblings... We were not poor but rather middle class. This resulted in us never getting invited for anything. The family would have picnics and functions and we were always excluded. These same people forget that money comes and goes. Now my mother's children are doing better than the others, we married well, but we always invite them for every function and don't treat them any differently. My Mom instilled good values... But honestly, when you're 10yrs old and your cousins talk about the fun they had at the 'family' picnic it hurts like hell.
2026-10-11 09:57:18
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💖 Zani 💖 :
Sometimes we assume the worst without looking at the bigger picture. Before assuming you weren’t invited because of money or because family thinks they’re better than you, ask yourself: Are we actually close? Do we check in on each other? Do we visit, chat regularly or spend time together outside family functions? Do they know what’s happening in my life? Because sharing a surname doesn’t automatically mean you have a relationship. Sometimes it’s not about family hierarchy or looking down on anyone. You might not have been invited simply because you’re not as involved in each other’s lives as you think you are. Not every exclusion is an insult, and not every invitation is an obligation.
2026-10-11 14:48:04
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Mish💋 :
if i make this my status people are gana start a skinner chat
2026-10-11 08:24:33
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Moneee :
It's not about exclusion always, it's about the relationship. Jy weet jy is nie close met dai mense nie maar nou wil jy weet hoekom jy nie troue toe genooi was nie🤷🏽♀️I would never want to go where I am tolerated.
2026-10-11 10:44:17
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Rhuwayda Thaker :
I already cut off my family, I'm not allowing family or any other people make me feel small just so they can feel big, your peace of mind is so much more worth than people who think they better than you, let them go my dear 💯💯💯
2026-10-11 11:43:30
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Adnaan Cassiem :
10000% on the nailhead.
2026-10-11 11:29:35
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candyfloss35🇿🇦 :
I think we forget these days that people invite who they close to. My mom is more close to her siblings kids than I am with my cousins. I didn't take offense when I wasn't invited.
2026-10-11 08:05:04
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Zaib :
I love your content, and it's 100% truth
2026-10-11 07:55:37
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zanebriesies4 :
it's on them.Cut them out of your life!!
2026-10-11 10:18:34
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BOETA🇿🇦 :
I agree with you, however on the hand we do need to look at closeness of the family as well. like if you a distant cousin and they invite your parents but not you. that's fine I suppose
2026-10-11 10:38:40
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Druppel :
so flippen true the silent jealousy👌👌👌but we family🙏🙏🙏
2026-10-11 08:33:25
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RafiekFiekie :
small things amuse small minds. I dont care if im invited or not. each to their own. we give to much energy away to people
2026-10-11 12:52:10
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Rmoses :
I'm the family member that doesn't get invited because I don't drink and pretty much quite I.e not talkative
2026-10-11 08:04:04
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Nolas :
this was me, 4yrs homeless, no one cared, then God showed them Who HE called me to be. Suddenly the invitations came, the calls, the checks-in's came etc. When can we come visit, I want to see your place. I need money can you borrow me something....all of these came after they saw how God elevated me. I stayed away, if you weren't around fr me at my lowest, why would I allow you into my life now that im thriving
2026-10-11 10:53:36
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A :
I have a sibling that is ashamed of me and she will not introduce me to her friends. I am too loud and not smart enough.
2026-10-11 11:19:49
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Taylor :
now that I'm not working, I don't get invited to alot of family functions.. There's a few family doesn't make me feel welcome. so honestly, the less invitations...the more peaceful my life is .
2026-10-11 10:41:09
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Taylor :
yoh spot on say it louder
2026-10-11 10:36:21
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corneljaftha :
Fully agree [Gesture OK]
2026-10-11 07:58:53
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Darryl :
I wouldn't waste time & energy on speculating their guest list-I've got no say on that. Once the function starts, I would politely go to the organisers and excuse myself, saying I've realised if my kids are not good enuff, then I shud be with them... Cooler Box 'n all!
2026-10-11 09:15:12
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Dark Angel :
Well said but I won't take it personally. I just learn to worry about ppl that worry about u. I don't fight for a place anymore
2026-10-11 09:37:30
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Fancy Shmanchy :
no need to have questions. my life does not determine who invites me. i will invite who I am closest to. not about how much money cousins make. if their parents are in my parents lives they may have the invite. so people should not make it about them if they done get an invite.
2026-10-11 13:34:05
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lu49robz24 :
been here with my daughters wedding. the guest list was a headache. then I told her...let's make it easy. it's ur wedding. invite the people that's close to u period. till this day family members don't speak to me. but I don't care. coz they never check up on me and my daughter in the past. there was a few family members and the rest is people who shared a close bond with her and her husband. and life goes on
2026-10-11 15:59:06
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rushiljina :
I’m ngl. If I don’t like the persons vibe. I’m not inviting them. Regardless of who they are or what I or they have…. If I was the person being excluded- I would enjoy my time at home and understand I’m just not their cup of tea ❤️
2026-10-11 15:55:19
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cool_grand :
True
2026-10-11 07:59:17
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