@save_the_messenger: Can you understand a man’s struggles without making them your responsibility to fix? Emotional maturity in dating means having compassion for what he’s going through while still holding him accountable for how he treats you. His insecurities may explain his reactions, but they don’t excuse disrespect. A healthy relationship requires you to protect your peace without losing yourself trying to understand someone else. If you’re ready to attract a man who values you, check the link in my profile — and stop wasting another month just watching videos. -Ismael