@lovelydreamercollective: #anxiety #overthinkingeverything #toxicrelationship #MentalHealth #SelfImprovement

Marielle🩷🫰 :

I relate so much, being sheltered as a kid, not know who i am. it is frustrating but i'm working on it.

taniiaa0123 :

As someone who is neurodivergent, I in fact do hate the idea of being perceived 🙃

🤍 :

my problem is that i compare myself to others… not in a jealous or malicious way but i still don’t like it

BackDora :

TikTok is def reading my thoughts

Briannakeii_ :

Yes I was never outside as a kid barely knew how to talk to boys. Over the years I thought I found myself but I truly found the real me this year . I’m still a work in progress but hey I’m more happier than ever before

Chelle :

So true I’m so self conscious 😩 I hate it

Blanca ʚଓ :

omg yesssss !!!!!!!! i had strict parents and i was never able to go out and i only know , being at home me and at school me , that’s the only 2 sides of me that ik and now that im 24 im barely getting to know other sides of me and i love it , im thankful for the way my parenrs raised me cuz im not out here like that BUT i do wish they could let me go out more to know myself more outside of them and school

nofoulplay1 :

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I have social anxiety but I don't know what caused it🫤

Chantel | Oakland Esthetician✨ :

i feel like sometimes when i try to answer questions about myself i don’t even know who i am enough to know exactly what i like, and ive had a bad habit all my life pretty much where i look to other people to make any decisions even small ones like where to eat or something dumb and i don’t know how to trust myself enough to know what i actually like

Ari :

The 40 questions thing sounds so simple and easy but I never would’ve thought about it. Thank you🖤🖤

indiainbloomx :

Thank you twin ❤️

miya :

it started from getting cheated on constantly so i started isolating myself a lot n that made it hard for me to socialize w others but i’ve been viewing myself differently and healing a lot lately. it’s been a year

Titi 🌺💄🌹 :

so true

Tanesha 🍒 :

My childhood bullies made my life hell. nobody ever thinks about how much trauma bullying could cause you even in adult years. So now anytime a group of people are starting at me or I hear giggling behind me I automatically think they are talking about me . Calling me ugly, fat, etc because that’s what I heard EVERY DAY from people. I also have a fear of smelling bad because my mom was so awkward she never really taught me much about hygiene as a child so I shower SO MUCH. I don’t care how many people call me beautiful, pretty, sexy, or whatever. I still hear those kids in the back of my mind telling me I’m fat and ugly.

Kay💋 :

I feel seen

Bri 🪩 :

You have beautiful eyes

9021nO :

Agree and u are pretty

Cher :

Also learn that even if your a good person people are going to perceive you however they want literally control what you can control

choppa ☆ :

As a Pisces I needed this

☆diana☆ :

Ugh ily thank u for this🥹

bailey 🐞 :

thank you beautiful

keindelll :

girl i ain’t hear nothing u said u so pretty

Freddyfaznutz :

Relating to this so much and rn I’m in a transitional period in my life it feels. I’m trying to overcome my hate for myself, and actually pursue and gain that passion back for the things I shied away from since I was scarier of judgement by others. I’m finally trying to get better with my art, cutting off toxic things and habits, and trying to be my truest myself, as well as standing up for myself. It’s hard and sometimes I feel like I’ll just fall back into the hole and sometimes it gets so close to that point but I feel like this time I’m going to get thru it 😭🙏

annabelle🤍 :

yess the mental load is crazy!! it’s so hard to not know who you are at your core. i’m still trying and still learning every day