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dancing. not even at our wedding. never did we ever dance. even when I said it was important to me. 2 dances in the kitchen, and he tried to make out before the first chorus
2026-10-15 14:41:45
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Brit 🆘🇺🇸 :
#1 is my biggest issue.
2026-10-15 04:20:48
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Merme123 :
Omg.. this 🙌
2026-10-15 16:07:46
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HumanApprentice :
Agree to all of this. I'm separated from him and I was lonelier with him.
2026-10-15 13:56:36
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PNWtraveler :
I don’t want any of this. I just want to be left alone.
2026-10-13 19:58:06
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Megan Mayhem :
Buddy, this is why I’m divorced
2026-10-12 10:57:53
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Toyaussiemom :
Mine refuses to see counselor. Over the past six years I’ve been giving back the same emotional availability as I’ve been given. He doesn’t like it and wonders what’s changed. I can walk into a room and he doesn’t even know I’m there because he’s so absorbed in the screen that’s in front of him. I do almost everything for him because he has now become disabled. I almost died because he didn’t want to take me to the ER and I was so sick. It was appendicitis that had leaked into my bloodstream, causing sepsis. My blood pressure was 50/37, my liver and kidneys had failed and I had troponin levels affecting my heart. I am now recuperating at my daughter‘s house. Because he is now alone with his 90+ yo mother, his response to my daughter was that he was overwhelmed.
2026-10-12 05:23:01
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InJennsWorld :
Can someone embroider this on a tshirt?
2026-10-12 11:40:19
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Corrina :
yupp living with the bare minimum has brought me to my breaking point
2026-10-12 03:53:59
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Holistic Carrie❌ :
If he knows I’m sad about something and asks me what’s up- I know I can’t say a thing because if I do- he turns it on me and it becomes an argument- so I just say nothing.
2026-10-13 01:51:32
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Siobhan Parker :
Hostage situation, boy that hit home
2026-10-12 04:15:33
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Rayofsunshinechick :
I'm tired. I do not want to be married anymore but got too much debt to leave and attachment with hope it'll change
2026-10-12 19:16:31
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L I Z Z I E🫧 :
How did this become my life😭
2026-10-12 02:59:41
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Angela :
Hostage situation is exactly the term I would use and stop with the questions! I know you know the answer. I seriously think it’s the only way he can communicate at this point
2026-10-12 22:24:51
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Perkymomz :
What’s crazy is that he won my heart and best years of my life giving me all the things. And one day he just stops doing those things and tries to gaslight me telling me he has never been that way 😳 boy I wouldn’t be here if I never received affection and love. Now I match energy, he gets what he gives…he is now not happy, shocker 😏
2026-10-12 14:04:04
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MysticallyAncient :
It’s interesting how they can’t even ask u How U R! U know they “care” but do they. I think my husband just assumes I’m fine so it doesn’t cross his mind to ask. Went thru pregnancy & postpartum, never asked
2026-10-12 12:13:59
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🌷𝓚𝔂𝓵𝓲𝓮🌷 :
I'm so glad I left the bare minimum. I'll be single forever before I deal with that again.
2026-10-13 21:27:33
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Lee :
His fyp not mine
2026-10-12 19:20:59
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DJSunflowerGirl :
I get that’s not how you really feel that’s a lie tell me how you really feel until I say what he wants to hear 🤷♀️so I rarely talk now
2026-10-13 02:54:31
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Tajtravel :
I hope this reaches young couples. if they don't get it young they might never .. over 35 yrs. he's absolutely right.
2026-10-12 16:12:10
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DianeK713 :
Yes, all of this.
2026-10-12 14:50:50
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GypsyGal41 :
Stopped believing I can get any of these
2026-10-12 02:44:19
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Hayley :
5/5
2026-10-12 02:37:37
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Jenny :
Oh I’ve noticed the damage it’s done to me 😭🥴
2026-10-12 08:44:48
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Mamauchi80869 :
So I should just leave huh?
2026-10-12 06:12:02
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