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Sunday 11 October 2026 21:01:04 GMT
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bil demup :
I stopped initiating, to see what it would take. 238 days later I gave in. I even told her how long it had been and she said I was lying. fml
2026-10-11 21:47:55
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apexs :
This is what led me to almost 🔫 myself 2 years ago. My wife started pulling away, never initiated, it slowly started becoming less and less, then never, then all intimacy stopped, when we would sit in the living she would sit on a different couch, conversation died, there were days and nights we just wouldn't speak at all to each other beyond basic pleasantries. I started out in the living room watching tv until she would go to bed just to sleep on the couch, then it turned into moving on to the couch without us even acknowledging it. Then one day the loneliness got to be too much, and I tried to end it. Fortunately it did not work and I got help, we went to therapy and are in a much better place now. We aren't perfect, we have a lot to work on, but we are trying.
2026-10-11 21:24:53
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Fuzzy from the Crypt :
Or maybe when she’s overstimulated and doesn’t want to be touched that’s ok, that’s not a problem. Maybe we should stop telling people that it doesn’t matter how they feel because the other persons feelings are worth more.
2026-10-12 00:15:30
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Ignis :
The analogy😂
2026-10-12 23:17:30
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Sgt_Shady🥓 :
I'm about to stop trying. Just tired of constantly being told no, so im going to stop asking all together and see if she even notices.
2026-10-12 09:43:56
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Snackpacks :
She sounds exactly like my wife. Maybe it’s the profession.
2026-10-12 18:24:26
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Bob Joe :
they wouldn't care if we stopped, they would care if they initiated and we said no. then it would be hell to pay. I'm the last to get attention from the wife because she's too tired from being wanted at work, then the kids and even the dog. she doesn't care about my feelings because everything else is more important than me.
2026-10-11 21:12:58
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🍋andiii🍋 :
wait I love the "hey babe" idea haha gonna steal that!
2026-10-12 20:16:35
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G0TTERDAMMERUNG 🇵🇷 :
I left my ex wife 6 years ago. I have a new intimacy boundaries. I've told my current partner how important intimacy is for me. How important it is for a relationship and for us to be happy and healthy. We haven't missed a day. It never feels forced. I'm happy she's happy. Life is good.
2026-10-12 20:47:55
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🌮 moe 🌮 :
I was married to a man who never initiated and never wanted to. After 14 years of consistent rejection, it destroyed my self esteem. I felt so embarrassed. I felt like there was something wrong with me. I felt like I just needed to try harder. Then I tried not trying at all. I feel so bad for men who are consistently rejected by their wives. I’m not saying there aren’t valid reasons for it, there can be much deeper issues in the relationship or mismatched compatibility. But for those women who just never “feel” like it and refuse to let your man try and get you to FEEL like it?! It takes a massive toll on mental health after so long. I’m not telling y’all to give it up whenever and wherever regardless of your feelings, but try saying yes a few times when you’d usually say no (this is in the context of a HEALTHY relationship please do not take this as me promoting SA or r*pe culture), and see what happens 🤷🏻♀️some people really do need it more than others to feel safe and secure in a relationship and I’m sick of it being demonized 😭
2026-10-11 23:00:46
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Danny Tomlinson :
I drive from Nebraska to Georgia every week to see my wife. idc when she picks me up I pull her out the car hug and kiss her. ill never treat her like a second option
2026-10-11 22:00:40
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Jacob :
Speaking from experience if you are never initiating and he is getting continuously turned down because you aren’t in the mood, have a headache, the usual things that are said eventually he’s going to stop initiating and then you will have a completely non intimate relationship all stimming from you expressing that you don’t want any intimacy from him
2026-10-11 21:12:14
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TriConJB :
Love it!
2026-10-12 17:48:55
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TreyBoggie :
Do you think she still would’ve said this if she understood that also gave men that work 10 12 or 14 hour shifts a reason to tell their wife no about anything
2026-10-11 21:31:20
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LeoSpidey • Lovers :
Yea she doesn’t like him
2026-10-11 21:29:12
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fsmf93 :
I don’t understand why people think it’s just about the act. Intimacy goes so much deeper than that. I’ve been married 34 years and while we no longer act like teens, if we aren’t connecting once or twice a week I would be concerned. He still initiates most of the time but if he doesn’t I will.
2026-10-11 21:48:12
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Devon :
This happened in my marriage with my now ex. Because I stopped putting in the effort after being constantly denied for years.
2026-10-11 21:08:49
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notmyself :
having to do all the work for intimacy all the time! I never feel attractive and I never will
2026-10-11 21:08:19
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timgardner.com.au :
divorce is easier
2026-10-12 00:05:37
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3speed :
This kind of behavior is destructive and killing relationships
2026-10-12 00:36:15
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Explicit9876 :
A lot of me me me, how about WE watch our shows
2026-10-11 23:05:53
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just_kaee :
yeaaaaaah... has this type of relationship... Notice I said HAD .. It's so great not being wanted... 😒🙄
2026-10-12 00:43:32
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PapaNick :
My first marriage was like this. I would try to initiate and get shut down. So I told her I was stopping and she initiate. She didn't, then complained about never having any.
2026-10-12 06:53:38
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ItalianRook 💙🇺🇦💙 :
Sounds like my ex-wife.
2026-10-11 21:56:17
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Zeldapunwheelie1973 :
Oh no…but, please do continue that snake analogy. Please?? I’m 💀💀💀
2026-10-11 21:58:03
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