@theriver4u2cry: Erika is speaking out after a viral clip prompted strangers to praise her and criticize her husband, Ramses. The video showed her carrying their baby and food while he sat nearby. Erika says Ramses had offered to help, but she chose to keep their daughter with her. She also shared that he was grieving the recent death of a longtime friend. Erika says the comments escalated to insults and threats against her husband. She pushed back on the "mom of the year" praise, too: "We don't know the whole story." #fyp #viral #motherhood
Marriages also require not 50/50 but sometimes 90/10 or 100/0 or 30/70. 50/50 doesn’t exist in a marriage sometimes the provider needs taken care of too
2026-10-12 10:28:28
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sici!! :) :
What the heck. When my bf took me to a game I literally was the one to get up multiple times for food because I DONT CARE ABOUT FOOTBALL and he does so duhhhhh I was gonna be the one in the lines. If it was something I was invested I.
2026-10-12 03:05:25
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TooMuchTiffany :
that makes her WIFE OF THE YEAR❤️🏆
2026-10-12 02:43:46
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RockoG :
Lost my bro to cancer. I’ll never tell my wife but that was my only FRIEND!! I MISS HIM DEEPLY. He was my brother. Love on that man. He needs it.
2026-10-12 01:07:07
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opaquelace :
People don’t understand marriage anymore. It’s give and take. And you know what? If we were at a ball game my husband was invested in I’d get up to grab him food so he wouldn’t miss anything. And this woman decided that her husband needed to be taken care of for a bit. So she did just that. And any woman that tells you they wouldn’t do the same? Don’t marry her. It’s not about expectations. It’s about taking care of the human being you love and chose to spend the rest of your life with.
2026-10-12 02:07:23
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user5876016099822 :
In other words mind your business
2026-10-12 12:54:53
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Yusleidys 🖤 :
When we’re at baseball games, I handle food and kids so my man can enjoy the game we go to see for him and when it’s something for me roles reverse. It’s called consideration 🤍
2026-10-12 16:29:14
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social :
This is why social media is ruining the world, people are way too quick to judge when they sit behind a screen.
2026-10-12 04:03:40
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lowfpsbot :
Sonder, such a beautiful word
2026-10-13 16:35:17
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Riley :
Forget mom of the year husband and wife of the century
2026-10-12 15:14:56
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All Gas No Wipes :
Just goes to show how much of an amazing person she is. Looking out for her partner knowing that if she needed him, he’d be there.
2026-10-12 15:46:53
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Pantera83 :
We can’t be quick to judge other when we don’t know there’s no true context to what goes in each others lives
2026-10-12 02:29:00
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Builtsupplyco :
Tell pah I’m sorry for his lose
2026-10-13 15:19:04
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pantopsbaby :
It's a partnership. With the highs and lows we all experience in life, havibg a partner is the person who helps carry the extra weight when it drops on you. And it could he any of us at any given time
2026-10-13 16:57:19
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Rooster Morning :
A strong marriage.
2026-10-13 14:58:24
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TheHammys4315 :
People really need to mind their own business. I’m so sorry for his loss. He’s got a great wife and partner and it sounds like she does too.
2026-10-12 15:03:34
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user8888299850579 :
My man is so rich
2026-10-13 06:17:44
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Emily Cox :
😭 no because the world have to stop canceling people over having no context what so ever
2026-10-12 04:57:29
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Life In The Shadows :
Mom/Wife and Husband of the year. This is why people should keep their noses out of other peoples business
2026-10-12 14:43:30
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Delilah :
This reminds me of the time my boyfriend (now husband) and I went out for sushi. We ate and I took care of the check. When he got up to go to the bathroom a girl leaned over and said “wow he was in a bad mood the whole dinner and you paid for him??”. He had just been told his best friend passed in an accident and I took him out to cheer him up. It was so uncalled for
2026-10-12 18:39:17
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mommapeg86 :
and this is why I say people need stop judging others from just a clip when they have no idea what's going on or how the other 23 hours and 30 seconds of the day go people see a 30 second or 1 minute clip and assume they no everything about the people in the clip
2026-10-12 03:01:55
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Jess Johnson :
The standard of “you never know what someone is going through “ promise y’all if you go through life giving strangers the benefit of the doubt you will lead a much happier and less stressful life
2026-10-12 20:31:08
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Dre ◡̈ :
we are in a culture where everyone has access to judge and scrutinize on a screen off a few mere seconds. same culture that blasts an unrealistic narrative on relationships through social media feeds.
2026-10-12 03:43:39
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appleuser94654698 :
and most of yall gone scroll down one video and judge somebody else in that comment section
2026-10-12 19:33:06
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