@erikagrundon: When the avoidant sees them on a date and the Secure upholds their boundaries #avoidantattachmentstyle #secureattachment #avoidantbehavior #avoidantattachment
What😭 there’s no way avoidant would humiliate themself so much
2026-10-12 00:41:05
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Patty C :
Is avoidant even real? Or does it mean they’re just avoidant to that person :/
2026-10-11 23:21:59
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bbrooklynn42 :
I mean I’d fold
2026-10-12 14:37:18
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Fireclown 🏴 :
Non-negotiable is a great word to use. Yes!
2026-10-11 23:10:52
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Jerico Hernandez :
I finally ended things after 9 exhausting months. 😔 these avoidants are narcissistic. They will not meet your non-negotiables!
2026-10-12 18:29:04
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Precious :
Tehy will never call
2026-10-14 20:16:33
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Reid :
my avoidant literally cheated. started seeing somebody like 2-3 months later. and she said "well you sure do move on fast" like- girl. gtfo [Tears of joy]
2026-10-12 09:11:25
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hvh78 :
This is so real. He didn’t want me but didn’t want anyone else to have me either
2026-10-12 00:43:44
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AB 🏳️🌈 :
how did you get this footage of me and my ex
2026-10-12 00:45:02
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sportlex :
there is some behaviour missing of the avoidant: feeling pressured, being the victim, crying, blaming you disrespectful, blaming you not to have feelings, blaming you to lovebomb in early times of the relationship,...
2026-10-13 17:11:47
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Wepa :
avoidants can get jealous and will reach out fast, some don't and just monkey branch
2026-10-12 10:25:05
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RandomPerson1800 :
This is a pipe dream, having a serious grounded and calm relationship conversation [Tears of joy][Tears of joy][Tears of joy]
2026-10-11 22:38:08
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Juliana Thompson :
My ex's exact words were. It's not working to get me back after he saw me out. With someone else where I proceeded to tell him it wasn't about him.
2026-10-12 03:04:24
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justcurious :
Something similar happens but I think they have this conversation in their heads only. 🤣 What they show is just passive aggression and they try subtle ways to remind you they still exist, at least from my experience.
2026-10-13 08:08:28
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Spacecadettekelly :
I'm not even having a conversation. I'm hanging up and blocking 😂
2026-10-12 19:11:23
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Castor :
after he broke up with me he told me he didn't want any friends, so i said that i should leave him alone. he said he didn't want that. he said he didn't want friends but he wanted me. and i said "but you broke up with me" and he didn't have anything to say to that
2026-10-12 13:15:30
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marijjule :
Is this gonna end the series?
2026-10-12 01:21:21
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JLC :
ugh, i needed this
2026-10-12 01:23:44
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Anthony Soto :
My ex did the same exact thing…it’s real
2026-10-12 02:54:41
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i5goodie :
My last ex was like this holy shit. He was an avoidant from hell but yet BEGGED ME TO NOT SEE ANYONE. LOVE HIM and everything.
2026-10-14 14:48:47
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mariakhasmir :
Next day they will change their mind[Teary eyed]
2026-10-12 01:57:54
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Krystle Marie :
And then he runs to a different Ex hahahahahah
2026-10-12 15:32:16
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Ellyse :
god avoidants don’t have a good look here haha
2026-10-11 23:27:47
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crystalbrooke_eq :
@kellwhoz @caseybleu NOT US QUEENS
2026-10-12 02:20:29
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🦋 :
😁😁😁
2026-10-12 00:30:15
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