@thegroundedmindse: My kids father turned motherhood into survival mode for me and I'I never forget or forgive him for that. #singlemumlife #thegroundedmindset #healingprocess #strongwoman #singlemother
I don’t hate him because of what he did to me but I hate him for what he did to me in a way I couldn’t be the mom they deserved
2026-10-13 00:28:58
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shafiyah2908 :
No applause, no recognition—just a mother quietly doing everything she can.
2026-10-12 19:00:00
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Patty Serrata :
My kids are grown now but boy do I know all about this! One day when your kids are grown they will see all you did for them and see you were the only one there!
2026-10-12 19:25:07
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Jeannie Stanton :
I’m 70 years old. And this made me cry. I still remember,It was supposed to be a fairy tale…it turned into a nightmare.
2026-10-13 03:01:18
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Brittney Foster :
I hate that my kids see a stressed out overstimulated overly emotional mom more than the fun, wild and free spirit I really am 😭😭😭
2026-10-13 00:31:32
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Nelly :
Words cant explain the pain he has caused…
2026-10-12 19:51:54
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Rishka Budram :
the way how I hate him...
2026-10-12 10:17:40
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Kim :
I hate my kids dad with every ounce of my heart and I hope he one day suffers like he made us suffer
2026-10-13 04:26:34
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CF :
I feel the same my kids are just growing fast but because I'm in survival mode I lost time too
2026-10-12 12:56:15
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Katie 💕 :
To all the ladies In these comments, may we all heal. It won’t be fully, those scars will always be there. But let’s make a vow to ourselves, that every day we will keep finding our selfs and find ways to keep going. Sending love to all
2026-10-13 00:22:19
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Karina_with_a_K :
I forgave for myself in order to move on. because we didn't deserve that. but its not a place I wanna keep myself. I refuse to be held there. so I broke free on my terms. and healed. Im the happiest I could be. im blessed. 🙏
2026-10-13 11:19:54
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⚡RENEE🪽 :
I hope one day my son realizes I was not the villain but just a scared mom that wanted to protect him from the monster
2026-10-13 11:22:58
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Sarah J :
I've been on survival mode since I was 19 😳 I pray for a soft girl era soon
2026-10-13 01:24:17
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Melissa :
This…… I will never get those days back.
2026-10-13 04:52:56
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BeufordTJustice :
It gets better. Mine is 20 and she finally told me she understands why I struggled so much. We’re besties now.
2026-10-13 03:22:04
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AM :
Well forgiveness is necessary for the kingdom of heaven
2026-10-12 22:44:38
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TERESA SILVAS :
Why can’t I hate him. Is there something wrong with me. I think I really forgave him, but he didn’t deserve it.
2026-10-13 03:34:48
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Breee :
Us living our best and happiest lives without him is the best revenge.
2026-10-13 01:03:42
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Nicole A 🩵 :
Same!! What was supposed to be the best time of my life, he turned into pure hell, for years. We both had trauma & I’m still not the same. Been single 13 years bc of that hell. 13 years.
2026-10-13 05:34:41
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Just Cat :
Yes, and being judge by your children, for the worst moment is the worst of it all
2026-10-12 17:02:24
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las-999 :
After reading all of these comments, I know I’m not alone… to every woman on this thread, I believe that judgment day will come to all of these men, and they’ll have to answer to God as to why he had to not only break all of us, but to use our children as pawns to do it …. That’s evil to its core. Let the judgment commence, God will handle it [Broken heart][Pray]
2026-10-13 02:55:39
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Mrs Eilish :
Felt that in my core… but., now my sons 21 and seen his dad for exactly what he is…. 👏🏼 he knows his momma always had and does have his back…
2026-10-12 20:28:31
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Divine Consciousness 🌱 :
The fact that I understood this…breaks my heart….no one should live like this!
2026-10-13 01:17:36
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Bossyandsaucy :
It’s one of the most deepest betrayals in life… smh
2026-10-13 03:33:34
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itsjessieyourbestie :
Twice.!!! I just wish my kids could have had a mother who could have been the mother I always wanted to be not the one trying to survive and heal causing them trauma that they now have to heal from 😭😭😭
2026-10-13 02:53:19
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