@deevibrantlife: Did you ever chase someone around like a puppy dog (either physically or energetically)? Or have them run through your mind like a freight train or more like diarrhea? 🤷‍♀️ that unpleasant but compulsive desire to be with them; the emotional roller coaster that has you skipping meals & losing sleep?? you get what I mean. You don’t want to but you just feel like you need them😩 to want you back? yeah, that’s probably not love, it is likely limerence. 🦋 Signs Your Crush May Be Becoming Limerence: 🌹 Intrusive thoughts: You constantly think about them, even when trying to focus on other things. 🌹 Emotional highs and lows: Their attention brings euphoria, while their distance triggers anxiety or despair. 🌹 Idealization: You fall in love with their potential or the fantasy of who they might be rather than who they actually are. 🌹 Overanalyzing: Every glance, text, or interaction becomes evidence you search for to determine their feelings. 🌹 Self-abandonment: You begin compromising your peace, boundaries, or priorities to maintain a connection. 💕 So How Is This Different From True Love? Limerence often thrives on uncertainty, fantasy, and the need to be chosen. Healthy love develops through mutual understanding, emotional availability, consistency, and genuine reciprocity. Limerence asks, “Do they want me?” Secure love asks, “Are we genuinely good for each other?” And remember, intense attraction isn’t automatically limerence. The distinction is often how much the longing begins to consume your thoughts, emotional stability, and sense of self. 🦋🌹 Like and follow for more on limerence, anxious attachment, self-worth, and cultivating secure, reciprocal love. #Love #limerence #secureattachment #attachmentstyle #anxiousattachment

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