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jayytheviibe
Jacqueliné :
I BECAME the problem when I found the strength to have boundaries
2026-10-12 05:28:40
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charmaneackerman
Charmané | Life Insurance :
I’m 100% the problem because I will not be disrespected anymore
2026-10-12 14:45:36
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carolinepitts_
caroline 🤍 :
Found all the people you’re talking about in the comments 🤣🤣🤣
2026-10-12 20:28:11
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brooklyngirl11966
Brooklyngirl11966 :
I had a falling out with everyone cause I have zero tolerance for BS. Today nobody knows about loyalty, respect, and honesty. They never want to be held accountable. Let's not forget selfishness
2026-10-12 12:45:32
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mariapresa93
Mlparg7 :
The worst ones “get along with everyone”.
2026-10-13 05:27:57
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deannapecorell
DeAnnaPecorell :
As a lifetime people pleaser I finally got to a point where I am very particular about my circle. I think it comes with age. I don’t think I’m the problem. I think I’m the solution for myself at this point in my life.
2026-10-12 04:46:04
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_karelis_9
Karelis 💖 :
What a dumb assumption! Many times people need to be cut off and that’s a healthy boundary.
2026-10-12 15:40:02
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doradeleon8
Dora De Leon :
False I think people just have a breaking point n put their foot down n people hate that
2026-10-12 12:36:22
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user4689965u
User4689965 :
If you are self aware, not fake, and have boundaries you will be lonely. Ppl would rather be friends with a liar that coddles feeling than someone truthful that helps them grow
2026-10-12 14:39:58
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abbsroseee
abbsroseee :
I’m just sick of bending over backwards for people who wouldn’t do the same.
2026-10-14 07:53:50
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stitch7910
stitch :
Oh, it is definitely me. At this stage of my life I cannot take the bullshit from other people so I am happier being by myself so be it.
2026-10-12 13:02:31
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reese_genxjustme
reese_genxjustme :
I am definitely the problem. Not a falling out, more like a cutting out of unnecessary fake bs. My now small circle is peaceful and kind.
2026-10-12 07:49:58
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sommer_818
sommer_818 :
So you’ve met my sister then?
2026-10-14 05:00:03
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mama_wahlin
Mama_wahlin :
Oh crosses my mind at least once a week or more.
2026-10-14 06:28:16
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sugarfreesuzy
Suzy :
That’s narcissism
2026-10-14 07:58:01
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lizziescissorhandz
lizziescissorhands :
Everyone lacks integrity these days .
2026-10-14 01:33:04
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baedriene
Baedriene 🆘🇺🇸 :
I think at some point the people who deal with this do wonder if we are the problem.. at some point we get sad about it.. then overextend our self again for other people and go through the cycle all over again and realize that.. no. We aren’t the problem. Boundaries look different for everyone and we just aren’t willing to repeat the cycle over again and it’s easier and more peaceful to be alone.
2026-10-12 17:47:55
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justgladtobehere8
justgladtobehere8 :
Awakened people no longer tolerate people's fake-ass bullshit so no, we are not the problem; we just put up permanent boundaries. Trust me the loners know everything.
2026-10-12 15:13:21
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cjfree707
CJFree :
When I started having boundaries every one vanished, they liked me being a doormat and agreeable. I'd rather be alone
2026-10-12 10:58:07
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johngalt2222
robin-marie Williams :
My dad told me, if you find you are mad at everyone else, everyone else is not the problem.
2026-10-12 06:44:39
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josieinri
josieinri :
It blows MY mind when someone makes that comment.. We stopped entertaining relationships that didn’t feel good, toxic family members only because we are “blood”, in-genuine friendships, friends we outgrew, etc., etc. so no ma’am, we are not the problem.
2026-10-12 13:34:36
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jennifer.lupo0
Jennifer Lupo :
It’s called getting to a point in life where peace wins over people pleasing. So you remove yourself from all drama.
2026-10-13 10:16:16
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okinawa2056
user7971986916762 :
Probably an October Libra. We dont settle for the bullshix rather be alone. Truth
2026-10-12 11:39:55
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frank__c_
Frank Coyle :
There's also a scenario where a narcissistic partner and his flying monkeys do a great smear job on you. Many people fail to look at both sides of a situation.🤷🫂
2026-10-12 12:21:03
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crashsyntaxerror
Crash :
Because that person is a malignant narcissist
2026-10-12 06:36:30
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