Me finding out my friend was in town and didn’t stay with me
2026-10-12 14:11:45
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Inkiedinkie :
I’m sorry, but I don’t want nobody sleeping over at my house, I’m just keeping it real.
2026-10-12 19:51:29
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Embo :
If it’s rude to ask to stay with your friends while visiting their city, then you weren’t really friends
2026-10-12 12:07:27
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Jess :
The concept of my friends not asking to stay with me is crazy
2026-10-12 19:34:31
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. :
Why aren’t people friends to their friends anymore
2026-10-12 12:47:48
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amanda :
I demand they stay with me actually…
2026-10-12 11:20:53
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chelsie.drabek :
I think she’s confusing friends with acquaintances
2026-10-12 13:26:20
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Callie 💚📚 :
Growing up we used to stay with my moms best friend when we were visiting there were times when my parents slept in the living room and I slept in the kitchen! You can always make space!
2026-10-12 19:40:12
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MaKenzie Murphy :
I would actually be so offended if my friends didn’t ask to stay with me
2026-10-12 04:27:39
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luchi.briee :
In the living room like
2026-10-12 11:28:15
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Iykyk :
Also, people are allowed to say no? “Hey how fun! I dont have the space for an extra person but id love to see you while youre here!” Very very normal 😭
2026-10-12 11:55:04
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Ebreezy :
Like, why didn’t you stay at my house? You don’t like me?
2026-10-12 13:22:12
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Jonathan Kirby :
i literally just got a 2 bedroom so friends would come visit !!
2026-10-12 11:19:45
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Toni Rodriguez :
I don't enjoy hosting, but I'm usually down to host a friend from out of town. The minor inconvenience of having to wear pants when they're here is worth spending time with them!
2026-10-12 12:03:59
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Taylor Renae :
My internet friend I’ve not even met offered me her place to stay at in nyc and I didn’t even ask? Like? That was suchhhh a weird take 😂😭
2026-10-12 14:02:24
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12DummyThiccFrogs :
And she was talking about “bring me a nice host gift”, and “buy me a nice lunch or dinner!” Like HUH
2026-10-12 11:31:19
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Jake :
I lived in Orlando for a bit and if my feelers were going to Disney or universal or ensure and DIDN’T ask me I’d be offended
2026-10-12 19:33:27
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Mary-Margaret :
You guys ask? I assume like huh
2026-10-12 19:28:05
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Logan :
The enemy is closer than we think
2026-10-12 17:07:56
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🍓🔥$UСК!Н 1N В!О❌🍓 :
radiant welcoming 😊
2026-10-12 19:43:42
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Raysean Ricks :
I think I would consider it rude if they stayed with me, but made no plans with me. Like they were hanging out with other friends and only asked me for somewhere to sleep.
2026-10-12 13:05:37
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titanic survivor :
It doesn't matter how close we are I am not hosting anyone, quickest way to lose a friend/ relationship with family. I don't do well with people in my space and start to resent them immediately for just existing
2026-10-12 16:10:04
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dani :
even in the same city. if the function is closer to my house, pls sleepover
2026-10-12 07:51:17
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christlightbearer :
Are they visiting your city, or are they coming to visit you? Because there’s a difference.
I absolutely don’t mind friends coming to stay with me and enjoy my city. However, I do find it a little strange when someone stays in your home but makes no effort to actually spend time with you. I think those expectations need to be communicated upfront.
We experienced this once with a couple who stayed with us. They would leave in the morning, come back just to nap and change clothes, head out again, and return late in the evening. We barely saw them the entire visit!
To me, that’s rude. There’s a difference between visiting friends and simply using someone’s home as a free hotel.
2026-10-12 17:49:23
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Lissia 🍫 :
Depends! You shouldn’t be asking your married friend or a friend who lives with a man. I think that’s disrespectful unless they’ve previously said it’s okay.
2026-10-12 19:13:43
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