@ron.capinding: 𝐆𝐮𝐬𝐭𝐨 𝐊𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐌𝐚𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐈𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 The desire to be needed may seem harmless, even noble. But when our sense of worth begins to depend on it, something good can quietly become something damaging. Sometimes, the things we do for others can reveal needs within ourselves that we have yet to confront. #need #indispensable #meaning #worth #independence

abcd :

Grabe sir, 1 mins and 30 secs lang yung video mo pero ang daming kong realization. "Tumutulong ba tayo dahil mahal natin sila o dahil hindi na natin alam kung sino tayo kapag hindi na nila tayo kailangan" halo-halong emotion ang naramdaman ko sir, sana hindi lang hanggang realization ang mangyari sa'kin, sana ma-iapply ko rin soon sa sarili ko yung wisdom na to. Tatandaan ko to sir, SALAMAT PO!

jewel | restarting life @ 30 :

My mom told me, "Hindi na kita kailangan." (out of anger, she said) so I moved out and I cried for a month.

SimoHaïya :

Sabe ng CEO namen, a good leader makes himself replaceable

nanunungayaw ng tanga :

so much wisdom

sharnesb :

tataaaayyy🥹🥹🥹

lazy :

ayun nacall out na naman ako

lm :

sabi nga nila no, and lately, si vico, ang sukatan nang totoong reporma o effective na sistema ay kapag nakakapagfunction ito on a high level kahit wala kana

shwing :

this can be applied sa parents

Panda Panda :

being needed feels nice until marealize mo na they remember you kapag kailangan ka lng.

⋆˚꩜｡ :

sir nagsusulat ba kayo ng libro?

raven :

"Being needed feels like Love." hindi pala no? hindi porke't kailangan ka, mahal ka na. and that's a sad reality for me. everytime nararamdaman ko na kailangan ako ng ibang tao, tumataas yung eagerness ko na lalo silang tulungan at KAYA ko silang tulungan kasi may bagay na hindi nila alam o wala silang karanasan na sa tingin nila ako yung may mas nakakaaalam, at parang nava-validate ako. na pakiramdam ko agad, kailangan ako nito kaya siguro mahalaga ako. nami-misinterpret ko sya sa maraming paraan. 😩

tryz :

sabi nila magbigay ka ng tulong sa tao hihingi yan ulit ng tulong, pero bigyan mo siya ng karunungan sa susunod alam niya na gagawin niya

Zillenial Mom :

ang powerful ng mga words mo sir. tagos hanggang puso. i know you are wise

Yannie :

grabe for sure ang solid mo po maging prof!! 😭👏

adobong puke :

Ms.wa :

i love watching your videos! ang sarap pakinggan🤗

DesTheConsistent :

angas mo talaga sir 🥺✨💗

iv_paradox :

Eme🏳️‍🌈 :

I lost a friend because I thought I wasn't needed. andami nyang friends and I didn't see any purpose to stay Kasi para saan? she has enough friends di ko na kailangan dagdagan. only to find out I'm meant to be more than a friend.

tapsilognakinabog :

ayun

Ezekiel? :

𓇼 °｡𓆉ֶָ֢°‧ 𓆝 °• :

leighton's mom :

sir, new mom ako and this is something i needed to hear kasi i want my child to need me as long as I am alive. 😭

el :

OMG I NEEDED THIS 🥹🥹