As the wife of someone who did just this- I agree but starting from scratch also taught me who I really am and what I’m capable of.
2026-10-12 18:20:15
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aleciacrosby29 :
PRRREEEEAAACH. I left with only clothes . While he kept the house, everything in it, the cars EVERYTHING.he makes 100k , I was a stay at home mom&he’s bragging how I’m “down bad” while trying to rebuild w no help
2026-10-12 16:10:46
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Simple Syrup :
I was so lucky. My ex husband bought me a house and gave me 50 grand to start over with.
2026-10-12 16:07:35
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Kaitlynn :
But hey starting from scratch is better than staying where your at
2026-10-12 16:28:56
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Bayous to Beaches 🚢🌴⚜️ :
21 years and got replaced in 3 days..
2026-10-12 14:57:01
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Tyler :
Sometimes it's not worth it to fight.. He'll make your life miserable
2026-10-12 19:11:27
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_raylenecanas_ :
Him being worried I’ll take half his money when I’m worried about how we’re going to survive with no job, no experience since being a sahm for yearssss and no family support..
2026-10-13 01:35:09
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Tanesha :
i would get an allowance of $20 a day watching our three kids after I stopped working so he can work. and I occasionally live in my car now. he calls it my camper home lol
2026-10-13 06:49:10
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Vibemama :
I want to leave so bad.... and i NEED to leave but he has told me over and over... I can never afford it. I'm worried he's right...
2026-10-12 22:26:37
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Sweet_P3323 :
It showed me how resilient I am. Started as a single mom to 2 boys. Went from a SAHM to a waitress. 7 years later, I work from home almost have my degree and no one will ever take financial stability from me again.
2026-10-13 00:14:27
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Username73295 :
Done this. Built EVERYTHING for a decade. DA. The financial abuse in everything from child support to court to damaging everything I’ve tried building after. He won’t let me succeed. It’s insane. He continues earning millions, I left with 0. My childrens and my life was all I cared about. The circus of flying monkeys is constant and never ending for years. Been a grey rock since day 1. This time around I’ve cut everyone off. 100% focus on my kids, my company and my business. This will be a Netflix series one day…
2026-10-13 12:31:36
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karenzaccario :
Joseph you are good looking 😉
2026-10-13 10:05:50
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Kristin Pittman :
It is BUT … Im doing it, figuring my shit out without his financial abuse hanging over my head! Its hard ASF … but I am becoming her again!!
2026-10-13 00:23:13
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💀🌪️🍓StrawberryAna🍓🌪️💀 :
Same been in this situation glad I’m out
2026-10-13 06:28:36
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harlie :
Left everything behind. The house, the furniture, everything i saved to buy. Moved back in w my parents with nothing but little things. But it was better than staying and continuing to be abused
2026-10-13 00:44:42
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patsyann :
He expected me to start from scratch after I took care of the kids and house while he built his career. Then when he asked for divorced, he chose not to have 50/50 because he “needed time to get his life together..” while I figured it out and took care of the kids at the same time.
2026-10-12 19:51:03
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Me Just Me :
Or allowing her to giving up her security for a fraction of the income coming in to help him and then when her savings is gone and she leaves you for the emotional abuse you drain the joint account and leave her to figure out everything like it isn’t your problem. She left her place, job and security for you and it means nothing to you. That to is financial abuse
2026-10-12 14:58:46
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E :
Yup. We got a divorce . All I got was my gaming pc and my dog. And working three jobs while he complains to me he gave 8k to the girl he cheated on me with. And got left with his debt that we signed together 😭.
2026-10-13 04:50:33
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Johnni 🏹Apache woman 🪶~<>~<> :
28 years of marriage, fled with 3 bags of clothes, our 2 children, 2 pets and the sheriff's made my ex give us 40 bucks.He cancelled all of bank cards . Tracked my phone . He controlled EVERYTHING, I had no access to monies, wasn't allow to work , no family or friends. We started over with nothing, homeless for a year . But I'd do it all over again to be free from his abuse, our peace is priceless now . I'll never be in another relationship...NOT EVER !!
2026-10-12 17:26:26
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Tonya :
30 yrs/i raised4kids…..he worked. I have up my career as a cop after 2yrs because he traveled. I got sick with stage 3 cancer. He left. He now enjoys 8000.00 a mo. two different jobs benefits. My sister has to financially support me & youngest son because I lost ability yo work from cancer. Waiting on disability but it won’t be enough to live on because I didn’t earn much in my life …., I was a wife and raised kids.
2026-10-12 17:50:20
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thelmam4047 :
Literally going through it right now after 30 years left me in zero but I got thi if I helped him count the coins I can count my coins alone 🙏🏼
2026-10-12 15:42:52
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Alisha 🤍🇺🇸 :
1 month after he got his 6 figure job that my family helped him get he cheated after we were together for 13 years
2026-10-13 01:28:59
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Ashleyllynn :
Is it financial abuse if he encourages you to quit your job because it was stressful one day knowing that you have a surgery coming up and then leaves you two weeks after you have your surgery while you don’t have a job and you’re not mobile like normal?
2026-10-12 18:44:33
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Nikki :
My ex and I bought a house together.. put 50/50 down. I was to be put on the deed after we closed on the house. Dumped me less than a year after we moved in. Needless to say the house was stolen from me 😅 people suck.
2026-10-12 15:10:44
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Queenvanhaaaa :
He left me with no car rent utilities electricity Wi-Fi now I’m getting evicted because I can’t get a job due to no car and no bus system🤦♀️
2026-10-12 20:19:26
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