@siobhanjmiddleton: Good girl conditioning teaches women to shrink, people-please, avoid conflict, and betray themselves to keep everybody else comfortable. It’s time to unlearn that shit. DM READY if you’re ready to reclaim your voice, your boundaries, and your grown-ass woman energy. #goodgirl #violadavis #todayshow #selfbetrayal #selfabandonment
I am kind, but I’m also a Bitch! And I’m okay with that…
2026-10-12 16:31:39
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Amore Jones :
Being good gets you nothing....
2026-10-12 21:51:42
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Napoleão/butcher :
The Peace You Keep Giving Away made me realize how often I was overexplaining myself just because I was scared someone might misunderstand me. That one really stayed with me.
2026-10-13 01:10:28
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withlovesignedk :
And the “good wife” !
2026-10-12 17:22:29
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DivActivist :
Read…Women Who Run With the Wolves
2026-10-12 17:43:52
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Poetic Justice :
Yup!!! I’ve disappointed myself so many times
2026-10-12 14:46:02
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Kiran :
Being a good girl = having zero boundaries
2026-10-13 00:34:52
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eb :
Being kind > being nice
2026-10-12 16:13:57
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KikiP757 :
This healed me…
2026-10-12 14:49:32
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wons45 :
Being a "Good girl" is overrated, People will take advantage of you and you feel so bad because you be knowing it but continues to let them in the hopes of they will stop and treat you right.
2026-10-12 14:26:22
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Gator40 :
Teaching my son that too. Don’t be a good guy. Be for you always
2026-10-12 22:27:25
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teeteeon3 :
Get comfortable with being uncomfortable…it’s hard at first🥹 but soooooo good once you reach peak meanness 😉
2026-10-12 15:39:15
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Sharda Walker :
I'm a real bitch.... that's it.
2026-10-13 11:12:05
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Menkie 🇹🇹🇻🇨 :
this is literally what i teach my daughter... its ok to tell people no... its ok to disappoint others but never yourself
2026-10-12 15:31:59
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Hannah :
Amen! Im tired of being nice; people are so disrespectful to nice people
2026-10-12 18:45:57
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YT | RESSY :
Disappointing everyone else before myself has brought me sooo much freedom and happiness. It’s MY life
2026-10-14 12:22:07
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CarefreeBri :
As a recovering good girl I feel so much satisfaction in knowing that ppl are just gonna have to deal with me and they’ll survive the same way I did 😅!
2026-10-12 23:04:04
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LovelyLibra 🇺🇲 :
Being the good girl got me nowhere
2026-10-12 20:47:11
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TippyL :
I love this: "disappoint everyone else, not yourself"
2026-10-13 13:46:01
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Free 🇺🇸 :
Yup. Now my whole family hates me and I have minimal friends. I didn’t have a voice when I was a child due to abuse, I got so scared about who will leave. Now imma leaver who will leave FIRST (after I cuss everybody out)
2026-10-12 20:21:05
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NaturallyPriddy333 :
I betrayed myself until I was 30. my entire life its been thrown at me that I'm the good girl by everyone family, friends, peers. I hate it so much. I just turned 36 and I'm still working everyday to never betray myself.
2026-10-13 11:45:14
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The Captain :
FACTS!!!! Take up space
2026-10-12 19:49:43
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Cousin Pynk 💕 :
Wish I knew this before now
2026-10-13 11:21:15
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012butterfly1 :
I guess it doesn’t pay to be good not just for girls but for everyone
2026-10-13 13:48:28
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Ravens Bordeaux :
Yep! That’s why I never shut the fuck up!
2026-10-13 08:39:39
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