Blair | CA Therapist
Region: US
Monday 12 October 2026 16:05:58 GMT
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Amanda :
My problem is that my husband tends to withdraw and stonewall me before he finally tells me what’s on his mind. By the time he communicates with me, my nervous system is shot, I’m anxious, angry, and reactive. He can’t (or won’t) change his behavior and I can’t change my behavior without effort from him to change first.
2026-10-13 15:15:55
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user5786029386 :
too late. that mf broke up saturday
2026-10-13 16:48:16
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Not real :
How u know this just happened last night.
2026-10-13 15:43:51
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Olin :
Honestly, you could try an AI app for English speaking practice. Talking to real people can be stressful, and practicing with AI takes some of that pressure off. Then you can ease into real conversations. I’ve been using Wellspoken for two weeks, and I feel like it’s helped me more than two years of living in the US
2026-10-13 16:04:20
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Noname :
Thank you
2026-10-13 15:52:10
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sycartes :
I thank you very much for these videos and lessons, Michael B Jordan
2026-10-13 18:16:50
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Bry 🌸 :
I need to take notes
2026-10-13 19:21:01
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Mo 💞 :
Let me send this to a couple ppl. Friends included
2026-10-13 18:35:27
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Sjneedo :
I feel attacked 😅
2026-10-13 18:31:05
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C :
This is what led to my relationships downfall. Me not being emotionally available but it was never about me being defensive. I feel like I tried everything but nothing worked and it killed me in the process in the sense of not being able to help them. I know I need to work on being better at it though I just don’t know what to do at this point
2026-10-12 19:16:40
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Not It :
I dont need this with my partner I need to know how to navigate this at work
2026-10-13 17:57:47
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Kittykittytat :
What are some good budget friendly solution ideas to reconnect ?
2026-10-12 20:52:53
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Cherrycake :
So hard to put in practice, but so important to keep trying
2026-10-12 16:19:37
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Conscious Animalia 7 :
Okay and what happens when you console them and communicate with out anger , they still keep repeating the same pain and past problems every single dayyyyy
2026-10-13 15:08:33
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DriLLBiT :
what if they are the one that has been doing that to you for so long that you finally accepted it and act accordingly but now they think you are the one being distant or disconnected?
2026-10-13 15:30:30
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Mamabears555 :
I keep hearing these therapists or relationship coaches say validate the person but none of them say what you should do to validate that persons feeling or concerns.
2026-10-13 13:37:28
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Kaitlyn Maree :
I just feel like I'm explaining it wrong and that's why he's defensive and it gets flipped. idk how else to explain what hurts me
2026-10-13 08:31:00
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Sriracha :
I really appreciate how you include the feelings in the body & the deep fear connected to it. 🤍
2026-10-13 07:35:52
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Smudge :
This feels like really bad advice for partners with partners that are codependent
2026-10-13 18:25:39
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Mon guide TDAH :
C'est tellement dur de rester neutre quand on n'est pas d'accord.
2026-10-13 19:08:53
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Nicole :
it depends how it's said
2026-10-13 08:21:18
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Pineapplebongos :
It would really help if you did a mock scenario all the way through along with potential responses. Thanks!
2026-10-13 16:05:19
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Jbug_23 :
This goes so far , friendships , relationships, partnerships with family
2026-10-13 15:18:16
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Ky :
i really gotta practice this hard because this exact how i feel
2026-10-13 16:35:31
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𝒃𝒆𝒄𝒄𝒂 ৻ꪆ. :
my bf loves to try to switch the argument onto me whenever i confront him from doing something that hurt me
2026-10-13 18:16:38
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