Reminder that narcissism isn’t attachment theory 👍🏻
2026-10-13 15:35:27
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Zezeze :
Dismissive avoidant has a point lol
2026-10-13 16:03:22
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shizreal82 :
It’s too exhausting. Stay single folks.
2026-10-12 20:28:21
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John Choureemootoo :
That’s a really good comparison well done
2026-10-15 16:25:57
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BLUE DIAMOND'S (dih) 🌀🔷 :
anxious attached here, it's been a week now and genuinely everything hurts but in the end of the day I realized that I only have myself, I don't need a partner who will choose me because i can choose me without having to beg and be understood. for now I started to focus with my life and my future ahead without someone 🙂↕️
2026-10-13 01:41:14
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mljpage :
This list is BS. You make an avoidant sound like a innocent child who just wants to be left alone buhu. Stop spreading false information because most of this is not how they are. It’s much more complex than these things and an avoidant is much more difficult then you paint it out
2026-10-16 10:19:59
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sliced apart by double edge! :
I’ve never seen an anxiously attached person pull away[Crying] they always escalate
2026-10-13 00:01:02
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PSpencer :
I can’t! …and they all started from childhood
2026-10-13 02:54:23
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Leanne :
Sounds like they don't want to be near you.
2026-10-12 20:58:03
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user4099216792982 :
What do you call someone who walks away, sits elsewhere, and avoids any social situation with you and his children unless forced to be in the same area?
2026-10-12 20:39:19
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polina98 :
me and my fearful avoidant
2026-10-13 09:04:41
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Charlie Quinn :
pulling away when someone does something I don't like is a perfectly healthy response, and doesn't meet clinical criteria of me being a narcissist. weird take. let's leave the definitions to the professionals.
2026-10-13 17:47:27
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Error :
Should I be proud that I'm from anxious, now I'm secured? My avoidant have both the fearful and dismissive. But recently she leaning more towards dismissive. And now, I don't feel anxious anymore. I just feel that we're not compatible and I value myself more. Is this secure attachement?
2026-10-13 04:14:29
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🐣 shar :
that 'person' i had is a combo of dismissive fearful and narcissist avoidant 😶
2026-10-14 00:16:53
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ChitownnotChiraq :
I’m secure attached [Tears of joy]💪🏿
2026-10-15 02:07:49
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Sofi 🤍 :
Iam anxious one then !
2026-10-13 05:49:54
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FarazA :
I hate to say this but I was forced into making my account in a paradoxical one to simply repel potential dismissive avoidants from following me back, I don't wish to be given an illusion of friendship, in which I am doing the emotional labour while they silently study me.
2026-10-13 16:26:04
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peracardium :
There’s tiers???
2026-10-13 00:55:56
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LillithParis :
Mine is at the same time fearful, dismissive and anxious. Great fun 😳
2026-10-13 08:09:48
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D8N :
Me
2026-10-12 19:36:18
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AbjaDaMeep :
anxious attached and broke up with my avoidant, it genuinely left a deep scar in my soul that I trusted and forgave them for so much and almost never fought back only to be thrown away every time I felt like a very clear line had been stepped on
2026-10-13 02:08:28
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marina_f29 :
☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻
2026-10-13 21:36:58
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Remy Buitenhuis :
thats not what a narc does. Thats what healthy people do
2026-10-14 02:40:50
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kayla.waylahh :
What if ur kind of a mix
2026-10-16 00:57:06
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JoriLael :
I get anxious when I feel like I made a bad investment in a relationship but I truly believe we can make it work I’ll try to be patient (I will complain and let you know what’s bothering me and I’ll give you the chance to help us get it right if that’s what they agree to) If that doesn’t work I’ll leave you to it.
2026-10-13 14:59:13
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