@spideyy_dgaf: Separation is not just about losing someone it is about slowly losing the version of yourself that existed with them. It begins with denial when you refuse to believe that things are changing then comes the pain when you realize that no matter how much you love someone you cannot force them to stay. You start overthinking every little thing every conversation every memory and every moment you wish you could relive. Then comes the stage where you stop asking questions because you already know the answers but accepting them hurts more than the silence. Eventually you get tired of waiting tired of hoping and tired of pretending that you are okay. You begin to accept their absence even though a part of you still looks for them in everything. And perhaps the hardest stage is when you no longer want them back but you still miss who they were and who you were when they were around. Healing is not forgetting someone it is learning to live with the memories without letting them destroy you. Sometimes separation does not mean the love was never real it simply means that even real love is not always enough to make two people stay.#treanding #creatorsearchinsight #fyp #foryourpage #onemillionaudition