@whywewant: Autistic and getting older? We're the first generation to do it diagnosed, and nobody's drawn the map yet. A University of Manchester team asked 121 autistic adults, aged 18 to 88, what would help them age well. A second study of 432 people aged 40 to 93 found autistic participants' sensory differences got harder across adulthood, and so did coping with them. Everything we build to get by is control over our environment, and ageing is when that control gets handed to someone else. What would you fight hardest to keep? #actuallyautistic #autisticadults #latediagnosed #neurodivergent #ageing

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nuttysnail
Nutty snail :
Your not serious of course we are not the only autistic people to ever get old generations have gone before us and many of us are already older
2026-10-13 09:21:04
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orla_seraph
Orla Seraph 🎵🔪 :
I'm making sure my kids have safeguarded money. that's all I can do when I'm not around. I've tried to teach them how to take care of each others deficits because our services in the UK have shown it doesn't care...not unless you have money. I've encouraged them to foster their limited circle of friends because they're also there for you to lean on. I won't be here forever. and I have my own needs. the biggest problem I ever had was trying to get the system to work. so I've been trying to plan for them not to rely on it if it's possible..and yes primarily that's money independence
2026-10-13 11:46:22
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vanityxx00
Vanity✨️ :
my worry is losing my memory 😔
2026-10-13 11:33:20
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sndoubleu
Stevie 💜 :
My (AuDHD) biggest concern getting older is my kids, no shocker there. There are both autistic with mid-high care needs. They are 15&16 ATM, I'm hoping that over the next few years we can find ways for them to become a little more independent. But as for thinking about what I need in old age, some peace would be good.
2026-10-13 08:12:37
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tofulion91
twinings91 :
we're going to be the first *diagnosed* cohort in elderly care. there's millions of them already, like my grandpa who functions and is independent but is overwhelmed by visitors and retreats to his loft with his beloved train set
2026-10-12 19:35:06
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hannah_g_smith
HanG 🇪🇺 :
What do you mean getting old? I was promised a shorter life span 😑
2026-10-12 20:55:11
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netabolur
dabbih :
We’re less likely to live long enough to become old. So the glass is half full.
2026-10-13 10:05:53
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anita.ersson
Anita Ersson :
I worked in a nursing home kitchen and my biggest concern going into a nursing home is the lack of control or options for my food. Maybe a silly thing but it is legitimately my biggest concern is not liking the food and not having options for alternatives that i would want, not what the kitchen chooses to provide.
2026-10-13 10:52:02
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magia3e
Just Matt :
oh crap 😥
2026-10-13 08:20:23
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ms.te.manu
Ms Te Manu (Aotearoa NZ) :
Perimenopause really adds another level of spice 😬
2026-10-13 08:12:46
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majatytte
majatytte :
Im NOT going into a care home, it would cause too much daily distress! I have though bought a smaller home with all necessities on the first floor which is almost already paid off at 32 and we are both investing heavily in retirement to where we’ll have in-home care once needed.
2026-10-13 04:01:58
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loopy_lou000
loopy_lou :
I feel bad for my future carers 😂
2026-10-12 19:36:07
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tomodachiwarfare
crow :
I won't let it reach the point where I'm no longer in control of having my sensory needs met, that's for sure. imagining myself old and feeble and probably suffering from dementia and being forced, however benign, to wear certain materials, sit under fluorescent lights, not have immediate access to sound dampening or my comfort items... yeah. I'm not doing that.
2026-10-13 08:56:06
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sarahp937
Sarah P7111 :
doing my master dissertation on it, don't panic!!!
2026-10-12 21:08:15
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treasa017
treasa017 :
People do know there have always been autistic people? They just weren't diagnosed for older generations but they had all the same needs as people with a duagnosis
2026-10-12 21:59:19
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fandomcrossstitchery
FandomCrossStitchery🏳️‍🌈 :
the older I get, the more set in my ways I get and the harder it is for me to adapt 😬
2026-10-12 19:35:55
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maya.sheher
Maya Èlen 🏳️‍⚧️ :
38 now and the sensory issues definitely got worse over time, more responsibilities also cost more energy so that got worse too but in exchange I learned to accept myself more and mask less so that improved my energy in and after social situations
2026-10-12 20:50:37
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moley.roseyyy
moley.roseyyy :
Oh great
2026-10-12 22:20:24
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mrspepperpot2
TheOGHildegard :
84 and would hate not being independent
2026-10-13 07:50:28
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anime4sd
anime4sd :
I do not want to get an autism diagnosis. It would just close a door for me being able to sign a private supplementary long-term care policy to cover my inpatient care due to old age.
2026-10-12 19:40:43
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handywoman.no
Amen :
(peri-)menopause is a BIIIIIIIATCH🫠😅
2026-10-13 07:37:41
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woolgatherin
Wool :
Good point it has crossed my mind , should be ok if I have my own room and should be robots by then?
2026-10-12 19:40:25
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neurospicy_nurse
NeuroSpicy Nurse | AuDHD :
Thank you for the video ! Also: WHAT WAS THAT SAUSAGE ??? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
2026-10-12 20:14:19
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birdsandwords
Lucy(she/her) :
would love to here your thoughts on Presence Without Belonging: A Conceptual Analysis of Loneliness in Autism Hari Srinivasan, BA
2026-10-12 22:34:40
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boundbybluud
Web :
scared to turn old because elderly are already treaded horribly in elder homes. imagine an autistic one. so much absue.
2026-10-13 10:50:09
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