@relationship_reader: When did you realize, oh crap, I'm the one being creepy? #redditstories

Whatsitworthtoyou2 :

cam you imagine. just being a normal person and have to change your life just because one little cunt cannot talk to you directly about feeling uncomfortable

A :

It’s only creepy if they don’t find you attractive

mr.clean_withhair :

the only thing creepy was waving at her in public like a friend the rest is coincidence

tikkitik3 :

Seriously. Don’t interact with her outside work. Rest is her freaking problem.

Omni Donvic :

Yeah, working in hospitality usually means be nice at work because you're getting paid to be nice. Outside of work, let your guests interact first 😅

crazy dimond :

why is he not creepy at all just nice

Liv :

honestly Sage sounds annoying 😭

Vanessa :

Nothing reads as definitely creepy, but when you see people out of context (in OP's case, outside of the coffee shop), it's good to call out that it's out of context. However I wouldn't have followed on socials either without striking up a conversation.

bella :

that’s what being a regular somewhere will get you idk

🎢hangtime>airtime🎢 :

whys the golden retriever always called biscuit

lasse_on_Rockrider :

yeah but with the gym thing he can't do nothing cuz like wth when his like 2years there and he has the same plan what he's gonna do

CaptainTinderPants :

i get where he's coming from but the follow was where it went wrong, the gym is a coincidence and while the waving is a grey area it would've been fine if you hadnt followed her on Instagram before that

quinn’s road :

I don’t think either of them were in the wrong, just an unfortunate mismatch

BenTheGoose :

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astro_kitty :

Be

lizzyhope33 :

Just realized??😭

Donovan Burkhart479 :

He was not creepy at all! Noticing patterns and wanting to make people feel special by seeing the little things, like remembering someone's drink order. Then noticing them at the gym and being polite by waving. He could of gone up to her and kept bugging her, day after day, but he didn't. If she was having any kind of problem, tell him. She was way too sensitive and should have dealt with it more professionally. Did she see him anywhere else, no, so it was not an issue. She went to the place that he worked and went to the gym. I figured it out, she was the stalker!

BalfaBakbeest :

the woman was the issue in this story

bob :

now if it was a guy no one would give a shi

. :

Fuck that I’m not changing my schedule over someone feeling uncomfortable.

dk :

nice ragebait 🚮

bu8813z_muztd13 :

That is like completely the girls fault

꒰ა 𝖼𝗎𝗍𝗂 𝖻𝗎𝗇𝗇𝗂 ໒꒱ 🐰ྀི :

as a woman, this is called being friendly. there is nothing wrong with anything he did. if she really had a problem she would have said herself. he had been doing everything he had been doing since before meeting her so that is her problem not his

GOAT 🐐 :

SAD