@becirvm: stop asking someone who couldn’t communicate during the relationship to suddenly become a motivational speaker after it ends. sometimes god allows people to walk out of your life because you kept reopening doors he was trying to close. you want an explanation. god wants your peace restored. you want an apology. god wants you to remember who you were before you started begging for basic emotional consideration. you want them to finally understand what they lost. god wants you to understand what you survived. and here’s the beautiful part. you don’t have to hate them, expose them, or sit around waiting for karma to pull up in a black suburban. release them. forgive what you can. heal what you must. because sometimes the closure isn’t in the conversation you never got. it’s in the life god builds when you finally stop interrupting his work. let that man cook. — becirvm