Alejandra Maria
Region: CA
Monday 12 October 2026 23:37:46 GMT
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Tiffany Dionne :
One man will treat it like an honor. The other will treat it like a burden. A weight. An irritation.
2026-10-15 13:00:31
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secretswithkaley :
I definitely noticed when you stop trying to attract people start being more attracted
2026-10-13 02:38:05
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monica :
I'd never want a man to settle for me
2026-10-12 23:48:23
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MichelePearl :
Skip men
2026-10-13 02:49:05
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Shannonbeaver :
This makes complete sense! Less over functioning!
2026-10-13 00:26:39
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. :
Can’t I just be myself
2026-10-12 23:59:09
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JustJulie :
I stopped over-functioning for men three years ago when I separated from my husband after 23 years of marriage. I am now in a much better headspace and a much better relationship with someone who absolutely adores me. What a difference!
2026-10-13 09:03:04
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Jamie :
I know I have an extreme scarcity mindset around men. I don’t know how to change it, scarcity around love is all I’ve ever seen or experienced.
2026-10-13 03:51:49
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Kymie :
Honey trust me I’m not doing nothing else
2026-10-13 02:49:47
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Loveandlight318 ❤️🔥 :
Less treating them like you are their mother.
2026-10-13 09:09:52
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Kel :
I needed to hear this.
2026-10-13 05:03:58
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Savedbygrace_V🦋🛐🦋✝️🦋 :
Amen! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🦋🦋🦋🥰🥰🥰
2026-10-13 02:53:53
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Behealthy :
Absolutely! You nailed it!!
2026-10-13 07:52:38
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NicaPM :
You speak truth!
2026-10-13 00:52:33
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ChristalleMexico :
You are so right on
2026-10-13 03:46:30
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Merideth :
@ 1:30 she’s cookin’ 👏👏👏
2026-10-13 00:29:45
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iammzDeAnn :
You look absolutely stunning my dear ❣️❣️❣️
2026-10-13 00:12:59
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lu5231 :
Right
2026-10-13 02:34:51
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𝑩𝒊𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒂 :
This is good.
2026-10-15 14:42:20
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M :
😥 so specific down the the chess
2026-10-12 23:52:58
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Zuki_J :
I agree about doing less over-functioning and the type of partner you’re likely to attract. I’m just not sure about the framing of over-functioning as ‘avoidance’. Over-functioning is more of a form of survival than it is avoidance. It usually stems from childhood neglect and/or abandonment (even emotional neglect). Women learnt to over-function as a way to survive the conditions of their upbringing or to be less of a ‘burden’ to their parents who already had a lot on their plate. And yes, it’s still your responsibility as the woman to recognise that pattern of over-functioning and how it contributes to the type of partner you attract. But recognising the psychological links and not framing it as avoidance can help us nudge women towards seeing these patterns through a lens of empathy.
2026-10-13 08:50:00
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Pauladblessed :
Actually 25 years later, he should not have to be convinced maybe in the beginning, but not at that point
2026-10-13 23:53:06
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annaestlin :
No difference between catering and over functioning
2026-10-13 01:48:16
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Cat :
😁😁😁
2026-10-13 02:39:03
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Miss Sav🇸🇨 :
💯💯
2026-10-13 17:42:44
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