@huntercolier: She's meant for you. That's why God paused it. The woman God has for you isn't being withheld. She's being protected from a house that was never built. "Prepare your work outside; get everything ready for yourself in the field, and after that build your house." Proverbs 24:27 There's an order. Field first. Then the house. God isn't negotiating it with you. A woman is a home. You're still a field. And He's not putting a wife in a house with no walls just because you asked loudly. So the pause isn't a no. It's not her. It's not the timing. It's the unbuilt man standing in the field asking where the house is. The day you stop looking for her and start building is the day the pause starts to make sense. If marriage is God's plan for you, she arrives after the walls go up. Not before. Send this to the man who keeps praying for the house and skipping the field. If you want to learn how to become the man God's calling you to be, drop a follow.