@hear_my_advice2: post095 #dearson Here is what really happens, Dear son: *1. You lose respect for marriage* Once you see how easily vows can be broken behind closed doors, you stop believing loyalty is real. It makes you paranoid when it's your turn to marry. *2. You become a target* You are playing with another man's family, his kids, his name, his ego. Many men have been beaten, stabbed, or killed over this. It's not a movie - in Kampala it happens every week. You will always be looking over your shoulder. *3. You inherit her chaos* She will lie to her husband, and she will lie to you too. Midnight calls, fake stories, "my husband is traveling" then he comes back early. You become her secret, never her priority. *4. No peace* She can't give you peace because she has no peace herself. Guilt, fear of being caught, fighting at home - she brings all that energy to you. *5. Your value drops* A man who cracks married women stops being seen as high-value. Other women will think: "If he can do that to another man, he can do it to me." Brothers will not trust you around their sisters. *6. Spiritual / mental weight* You start normalizing cheating, lying, sneaking. That mindset follows you into your own relationship. You will struggle to trust your own wife later because you know what's possible. *7. Legally & socially Adultery is not criminal jail time anymore, but it IS grounds for divorce, and the husband can sue for damages. And socially? If her family / clan finds out, your name is spoiled. That's why real men have a rule: > *If she has a ring, a husband, or a man paying her rent faithfully - she's invisible.* There are 4 billion single women. No need to borrow someone's wife.

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Tuesday 13 October 2026 12:59:04 GMT