@drjdbarton: Just some thoughts from a therapist on sexuality, social expectations and how we might not even realize how much we’ve been conditioned to think a certain way. #moderndating #therapytok #misogyny
I’m a fatally straight woman and I promise it was not for lack of effort. I’m so jealous of lesbians.
2026-10-13 15:29:07
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Giulia Malavasi :
Whenever I get asked I either say I’m “unluckily straight” or that I’m “straight but spiritually repulsed by men”
2026-10-13 18:06:09
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L 🤦🏽♀️🇺🇸 :
I've tried to be a lesbian, I'm unfortunately heterosexual, I could probably be a lesbian in an asexual way
2026-10-13 19:57:11
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Hurricane Herder :
I honestly say at least once a week “This is how I know sexuality is not a choice.” WHY WOULD WE CHOOSE TO FIND OUR BIGGEST NATURAL PREDATORS ATTRACTIVE??? 😅
2026-10-13 23:00:32
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Vulture & Co. :
Absolutely. But as I‘m straight, I choose to be single.
2026-10-14 16:58:11
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AIHM :
OMG, you are right, cause as a straight woman, I'd rather be single.
2026-10-13 20:20:36
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anadarkhead :
At this point I think we can refer to ourselves as reluctantly straight & happily single ✨
2026-10-14 04:22:56
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bonnyonmaui :
I crave a lavender marriage with either sex at this point but yes, wishing I had that choice.
2026-10-14 01:07:56
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Rootedwithleny :
I’m raising two sons…. Beyond proud of their emotional intelligence and gentle nature towards women.
2026-10-13 16:13:49
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🇫🇮Knittykit🏳️🌈 :
When I came out to my mom 30 years ago (I was 15), her first words were "OH THANK GOD, I'm so happy!". My flabbers were gasted, but over the years, watching my friends and sisters, I've realized why she was so relieved.
2026-10-22 08:19:40
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Tanya Stine :
I’ve been with a woman longer then I was with men…no regrets
2026-10-13 21:47:01
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✨Amanda Unmasked🏳️🌈🇵🇸🖤✨ :
Love your shirt btw. Thanks for this post.
2026-10-13 19:35:04
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Kerryangel :
Yeah. I agree with you. I don't think I'm completely straight but I have no idea where to start with a woman cause it's always been men. it just seems more straightforward in ways. it's not though. I'm just gonna remain single. it's just easier at this point. hetero norms.. yeah. I think that's part of the problem
2026-11-09 19:02:27
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The Root Ritual 🌿 :
only heard the Truth
2026-11-04 23:06:27
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Rebekka :
100% Yes
2026-10-14 09:39:46
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K ✨ :
Yes, absolutely
2026-10-13 19:13:23
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SolSoul :
right 😂
2026-10-25 21:27:11
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eg_or_ie :
10000% God didn’t love me enough to make me a lesbian 😩
2026-10-19 02:44:40
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Nessa :
Absolutely true!!!!!!!!. I am divorced because it was horrible. I tried dating after... omg such a big mistake. I promised myself not dating again since 2017. Thanks that I will be retiring at 45.
2026-10-30 22:26:04
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beckyrmft :
Facts
2026-10-15 22:42:50
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Chida Mbengo :
True
2026-10-18 16:10:00
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Beatrice999♊️🇳🇴 :
Yes, unfortunately I wasn’t one of lucky ones
2026-11-07 20:46:06
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Normieb :
If any sexuality was a " choice " , many of us would do different if we could.
We get the cards we are dealt
2026-11-08 17:52:51
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hollypatterson :
This
2026-10-18 22:45:35
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