Oh my goodness… Please please tell them your intentions. If she isn’t looking for the same things, you are very much wasting her time.
2026-10-13 17:51:32
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Julie :
Be honest. I’d also proactively try to set up a few dates per week so you’re committee to dating until you find someone you want to be serious with.
2026-10-23 15:27:47
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emschoff :
You’re contradicting yourself… you said she is cute, you really like her and checked all your boxes…..But you still feel like you need to date around…. To me, sounds like you’re not ready for anything serious. You need to be upfront and honest because she is probably thinking there is something there. So yes, reach out so you quit wasting her time.
2026-10-14 12:51:59
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Nicole Brennan :
You don’t get to decide when the right person shows up! Go with the flow.
2026-10-13 18:52:13
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juliagoolia245 :
dude.. dating is miserable. if you find someone you like you should see where it goes. there are not unlimited people you connect with. but the others will still be out there if this doesn't work out. i can not understand your mentality. if you don't like her and don’t want to see where it goes then... go date around and say not interested
2026-10-16 02:05:22
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hunna dolla :
1000000% be honest with her. That’s actually the only correct decision here. If you want to date around you need to get comfortable being extremely upfront about that
2026-10-17 22:49:37
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Liz Ellis :
You strike me as a good dude. If you’re DATING in this mindset, you’re gonna miss opportunities for happiness. But you’re young; if you just wanna flirt and meet lots of women, have hobbies! Book clubs, community theater, trivia nights, pottery classes.
2026-10-16 07:43:01
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DululuEva :
Be honest with your intentions and what you’re looking for. You can also be clear that you want to date multiple women. As long as you approach it with respect, you should be good 😊
2026-10-13 16:56:54
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Alex :
This is fascinating to me- I’d much rather stick with one great and high quality person, than go for quantity/date around to experience a bunch of whatever’s (& ive done both)
2026-10-17 18:43:56
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sunny5636886 :
Do you know if you’re avoidant ?
2026-10-18 16:04:51
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chelscorig :
Sometimes first ones a charm and you’re lucky to experience that. There’s so many duds out there, if she’s checking boxes… lean into it dude!!! You’re going to regret letting her go when you realize the majority of people are lacking.
2026-10-17 15:49:19
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Greta :
You need to be upfront that you’re new to dating and want to explore connections- which is understandable but to be honest if a guy told me that after we had a good connection it sounds like you’re looking to see if you can find better
2026-10-18 15:29:04
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nicole ⋆˙⟡ :
id just be super transparent about it
2026-10-20 17:52:25
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Diana 🙂 :
I agree with a lot of the other women in the comments section. If it’s just a first date, it’s probably the aspect of it being new and exciting. I would definitely recommend meeting other women and talking to them as well. Getting to know them. How I ground myself when I date is: I think of people as new friends, and I’m discovering who they are over time. And also as a way to learn more about myself of what I want in a partner. I think this also boils down to what you want. Is it just casual or is the hope for a LTR? If the latter, you don’t have to speed down the runway - you can pace it so that it’s comfortable for you. If dating intentions hasn’t been discussed - I would talk about it within the first couple of weeks so you don’t waste people’s time as well. The more I grow up- I realize dating/relationship dynamics in general involve talking about the hard/uncomfortable things. 😅
2026-10-16 18:11:47
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🗡️🌹🖤hexed.roses🖤🌹🗡️ :
theres nothing wrong wanting to date around but you should be honest about your intentions. and once your honest with her be ready for her reaction to that
2026-10-14 16:43:46
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harpmont :
100% be upfront before you go on the date!!
2026-10-18 02:40:18
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Alyssa :
Hey Tim tbh I wouldn’t worry too much about it after one date. I think this is more of a 4 date thought. She’s prob also going on dates with multiple ppl rn
2026-10-14 00:41:42
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Allyson :
Absolutely be upfront. I’m also in the dating world. Honesty is respected. From the start, speak your intentions. ❤️
2026-10-13 17:57:11
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user5202467179397 :
take it slow!! and nothing beats honesty. just be open and honest ( and respectful) and you shouldn’t get in any hot water. take it slowwwwww
2026-10-14 16:03:11
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Raichl Storey :
Always be up front! Even if it’s not what someone wants to hear it’s better for them to know than investing more time thinking it’s going somewhere else. I’d rather someone over communicate than under communicate 😂
2026-10-13 22:24:13
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Sunshine Eats :
You needed to tell her before the date
2026-10-14 13:07:50
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maggie 🪲 :
be honest with her and then come be casual with me 💗 hope this helps!
2026-10-16 11:13:11
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Ashley Hamerlinck :
Yep, just go looking for friends out the gate. Girls dig that. Don’t hate the player! Go live your life!
2026-10-16 18:13:48
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Jaclyn :
Figure out what you want and then communicate that. Don't waste her time
2026-10-16 01:33:02
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sarahnilsonart :
ask her intentions! tell her yours! practice communicating and having these conversations! these hard convos are reps too… but if she checks all the boxes i wonder what more you’re looking for
2026-10-13 22:02:36
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