the worst part is, they tell you they're there for you, while standing back and watching you fight for your life. they believe it too.
2026-10-13 21:13:39
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Maggie Mae :
Knowing how hard it is to ask for help, and when you do being met with excuses… like why did I even bother.
2026-10-14 03:21:47
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missmeeshbish :
If you have an attitude while doing my task, I’ll just do it
2026-10-14 03:05:09
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Calla O :
i have a theory, we were babies when the cry it out method was really big, and thats why most of us are hyper independant, cant accept kindness, and never feel like adults
2026-10-14 12:29:49
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StormtrooperW15E :
Or your needs being treated like an inconvenience. Or people getting angry while helping you with something. It just becomes easier and less stressful to handle everything alone
2026-10-19 18:41:05
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Ms. M.U.K.I.S.A💐 :
I get so triggered when I open up to someone only to be told about how strong I am! Or ‘I know you can handle it’
2026-10-19 18:12:12
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Chrissy :
I learned this a long time ago....I have a good family but I still did it on my own!! to this day I do .... it is what it is
2026-10-20 02:45:52
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KTullz13 :
The best is when guys are seemingly bothered by it yet show you time and time again exactly why you developed hyper-independence to begin with 👌🏼
2026-10-18 18:11:03
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alisj1969 :
My brother promised to help me move some furniture, he never showed up, I found out he’d gone to Madrid for the weekend. I don’t ask for help anymore.
2026-10-14 22:59:55
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BolinsSweatRag :
I've learned to put the effort in that they put in. Suddenly we never speak.
2026-10-14 07:57:38
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WhatJeffrey :
The worst is when you finally ask for help and they act like they are saving you, instead of helping.
2026-10-14 17:39:55
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ℒ :
Man iam so tired I just want to feel cared for💔
2026-10-14 06:27:13
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Haruo_Chan_91 :
I've gone my whole life saying "I don't need anyone," and it drives my husband crazy. I genuinely don't, though, because no one has ever been reliable for me
2026-10-14 13:45:15
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kk86 :
I helped both my siblings move (one twice) but when I moved not one showed up. I stopped doing things for them after that, and they stopped talking to me. Guess I was only good for what I did for tbem.
2026-10-14 07:23:25
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Lexi 🌌🌀 :
Yup yup yup
2026-10-19 17:06:50
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cvntstellation :
Yet I show so much urgency for others. I just wish I could meet someone like me that cared like I did.
2026-10-14 05:43:12
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beenreadyg🇨🇺 :
„Just ask for help“ why ? I also help without people having to ask. I even ask them if they want me to help or do it alone so yeah.. nah 😂
2026-10-15 02:25:14
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isa_scrolling :
No one came I went through hell no one came. I stopped showing to their baby showers, birthday, wedding. I stopped responding to their text.
2026-10-14 22:42:20
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Lacye Lembcke :
People would tell me not to worry or it wasn't that important as something important was crumbling, so I just stopped asking for help, since all I got was a lecture about how I needed to help them more
2026-10-14 08:43:58
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bagoegg :
"I'll take care of it"
"I'll make it work"
2026-10-14 13:36:43
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HelloWorld :
same. For any and everyone else, I jump on their needs, I want to satisfy their needs. Others, I am placed in a queue to be entertained afterwards.
2026-10-14 05:39:14
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Keneshk :
You can only rely on yourself
2026-10-14 15:15:33
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nordicbeauty27 :
"Oh wow that sucks bro" is pretty much it.
2026-10-14 04:30:40
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Dev🌚🍉🧿 :
my mom always tell me about when i would have "tantrums" (aka crying fits) as a child and instead of comforting me she would step over me and walk away. Have felt stepped over my whole fucking life.
2026-10-14 13:36:26
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h_turn :
once you rely on another, you become beholden to their whims.
2026-10-14 08:24:11
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