Karla Tobie
Region: US
Tuesday 13 October 2026 19:16:22 GMT
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Dorian :
I stopped checking on folks and now my phone don’t ring
2026-10-14 00:29:11
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N.hevy :
Once I catch where I fall in your level of importance, I play my position so fast I am done with non-reciprocal relationships.
2026-10-13 20:40:01
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ms.sirentoyou :
I’m currently letting two friendships die out.
2026-10-13 22:56:16
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Lexx :
Hello sis! Took me awhile but I’m here !
2026-10-14 04:03:33
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Sha Shanelle :
& it be so ironic to see how quick people respond to your response to their behavior but never was quick to match the energy when you was being caring and considerate 😅
2026-10-13 20:59:58
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🌸 Jumbo Cakes 🌸 :
Crazy part is once you start matching energies, all of a sudden you’re painted the villain when they started the weirdness first…
2026-10-14 01:00:10
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RN Missy :
It’s crazy to see who is left when you do this
2026-10-13 23:58:28
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Monique :
Literally! I ran myself raggedy doing more for folks than they did me.
2026-10-13 22:14:49
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Mel P :
Girl I absolutely hate when people say that’s being PETTY?! now it’s petty because I’m doing what you’re doing. ✌🏾
2026-10-13 22:58:18
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Katherine :
Yess! If they don’t remember my birthday I will not remember theirs.
2026-10-14 00:14:15
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Isabella J 🇬🇺 :
I feel this way more as I’m getting older, it’s exhausting overextending yourself 😭
2026-10-13 20:47:00
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Miss.A :
Say it loud!!!
2026-10-14 04:36:16
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Laa🎀 :
nobody goes above & beyond for me so i no longer go for others.
2026-10-14 00:37:35
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NyshPink :
Straight like that! Petty it’s more matching energy. This is preserving your peace.
2026-10-13 19:53:16
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Telly A 💕 :
Girl me too and once I started folks started to think something was wrong 🤣
2026-10-14 02:52:04
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Blkwida :
Block and delete!
2026-10-14 02:59:49
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Joycelyn Janay :
This is me fr 😌
2026-10-14 02:54:09
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Constance📚🎀 :
I stopped making plans when I noticed I never got invited anywhere and if I didn’t make the plans I wasn’t see anyone
2026-10-14 03:04:50
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aushasimone :
I hate to do it. But self respect is always the end game as I get older! Can’t please everyone!
2026-10-13 19:51:37
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Reigna :
Family included!
2026-10-13 22:04:40
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Hannah Reeves :
I stopped doing this with mom “friends” when I was the only one reaching out to schedule play dates AND it always seemed like we had to do something on their side of town (I live in DFW for reference)
2026-10-13 22:38:53
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Mone :
Definitely learned the hard way but now I realize you have to treat people how they treat you. You can give your all to people just to get used and receive the bare minimum.
2026-10-13 21:00:40
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Karen 🎀 :
And it saves you soooo much disappointment when you don’t expect “the same in return”. No expectations, no disappointments
2026-10-13 22:10:44
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Vee 💛 :
Yup especially when it comes to people coming to see me. I’m always driving hours, flying far to see the people I used to love. Now Idc how much I love you, you will suffer because I’m not showing up 😩
2026-10-13 20:39:53
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𝓩.🐆 :
Yup! I started doing this and started getting cut off left & right🤣 good riddance!
2026-10-13 23:13:17
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