@lerato_mvelase: discuss whether the 50-50 principle in relationships was meant to apply to the household or the workplace, and the importance of preserving cultural values around women as nurturers and men as providers and protectors.

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fabaluwani
AluGPT :
they're coming back to their senses bit by bit.
2026-10-14 12:38:41
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eliprince105
EliPrince105 :
even in the work place, the 50/50 doesn't work
2026-10-14 16:03:51
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graciegirlorg
Grace Girlie :
This is about gender roles not about the innate nature of the masculine intelligence or feminine intelligence. We have 50-50 because of things like the industrial revolution’s that we are in. History says that women (nurturing) stayed at home because the system didn’t allow them to go work and buy homes etc. I don’t think we should go back to the olden days as there’s been dire consequences in these olden days. Our grandparents lasted long because they were dependent on the men hence we don’t have healthy family units today because our grandmothers warned us against being dependent. So my view is create a container for gender roles and duties that require two adults to create a functional home then relationship dynamics that’s were we bring in the masculine and feminine qualities that gives relationships it’s spark & maintains the chemistry.
2026-10-14 09:28:05
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wizber36
Tshifhiwa Webster :
We can't even protect woman now because of this 50/50
2026-10-14 16:31:53
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sphiwendzeku
Sphiwe Ndzeku :
How I wish the so called * modern women "can think like you Lerato.that was so powerful
2026-10-14 05:04:15
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masbongegweva
Gwevas Aluminium :
The problem started in the workplace, how can you expect man to provide and yet you took his responsibility at work and that man is not working. the same man is expected to provide. The 50/50 is actually oppressing men.
2026-10-14 11:47:57
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blagga_tk
Teekay :
The system was designed to degrade man and woman fell for it....
2026-10-14 01:24:14
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litha6965
BroLitha :
Another term that's used loosely "princesses"
2026-10-14 23:01:27
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ziggyscotch
Ziggy Scotch :
I disagree with the perspective the lady in blue is asserting. Her point insinuates a situation where a man is wondering in the streets in search of a woman who’s gonna carry his kids and in return here’s your reward 💵. That’s not what marriage is, men are looking for partners who are willing not those who feel “obligated” to build with them. Where both parties give their all and are equal in a sense that are both stewards even though they may carry unique responsibilities. She’s talking as though after a woman gives birth the best u can do is provide, which in a sense is true and I stand for it, but what about the other things that women tend to want from their partner besides provision? A providing all for her a woman who loves u and sees a future with u will demand a lot more than just money, unless she’s just securing a good future for her self n children. Such a women will tell u money is the bare minimum. After providing all, what more can u do for the family u started when ur money isn’t dancing? Such a women will demand emotional available, a present partner n father, a good communication, a leader etc. if money is all u can do…it’s a pity for such a man because the day u run out of it you’re doomed
2026-10-14 14:17:28
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fifie8901
Fifie :
that is so true Lerato,we lost it,somewhere. we sold ourselves. nd its visible, from the struggles we are facing daily.
2026-10-14 09:09:40
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nosiphokazi07
No Sipho :
Love this women, she’s very wise
2026-10-14 08:51:42
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mpume_lelo05
🌻Nompumelelo🌻 :
I think we must engage and find ways that work for us black people and forget about the western ways
2026-10-14 10:49:08
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max_cpt1
Max :
The unfortunate part is that the damage is already done, and men and young men are afraid to come back. Beautiful minds ladies, much appreciated
2026-10-14 16:28:45
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khuboni78
Khuboni :
Western people are not happy about feminism either. They are realizing now that they bought pain to themselves in the name of civilisation.
2026-10-14 06:23:30
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profe444
Amo :
Hello my sister ,you are my favorite woman in the world since I like you long time ago on that of the series 'Shasha'👌❤️
2026-10-13 22:26:02
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custar_wox
CuStar :
conditional 50/50... in other words having your cake n eating it. hahaha
2026-10-14 17:22:13
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jayvieira486
VieiraSomething :
A black family is under threat, the system has or is built to destroy the protector and provider. i love how you break it down for a black family. I love you for this truth Lee ❤️
2026-10-15 02:07:36
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djkm016
Kenny m :
my favorite person in de world
2026-10-14 04:21:07
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halalansibande
African Barbie 💐💐💐 :
We took something we did not know...
2026-10-14 11:52:09
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busisiwe7155
Busisiwe :
indlela engikuthanda ngayo ayichazeki♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
2026-10-14 02:50:10
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israelphiri23
Israel Phiri :
Too good and nuanced for this app. Needs more time. But this was wow!
2026-10-14 15:51:07
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benevolentdictator0
benevolentdictator0 :
It's 50/50 until it's time to pay the bills
2026-10-14 15:27:22
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nikimkenz
Kitta :
My favorite person tog
2026-10-13 22:34:36
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serakisekwati7
seraki sekwati :
Lerato I think our daughters can only learn , only if women like you will lead and instill / teach them those values, The ones who've been through that road...
2026-10-15 09:53:44
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veeh0001
Vee001 :
💯 true
2026-10-14 00:09:48
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