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jadedwall
jadedwall :
the entire plot of breaking bad is because of this mindset
2026-10-13 22:11:10
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jackhanma304
Jack Hanma :
You can literally treat it as a loan and pay them back
2026-10-27 09:24:08
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waitformereprise
Ash :
This is why i hate matt donovan
2026-10-13 23:54:32
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errbodylovesab
errbodylovesAB :
For me it might sound ridiculous but whenever someone helped I always owed them back so that’s how I see it normally
2026-10-29 05:59:53
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skapskapskapskapskap
Skap :
This is why I never properly understood the “nepo baby” argument, if your parents are offering to buy you a brand new car or a house are you really gonna turn it down because you don’t wanna be a nepo baby??
2026-10-13 22:13:03
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javierescuellashusbandd
𝐉𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐞𝐫 𝐄𝐬𝐜𝐮𝐞𝐥𝐥𝐚 :
"i dont need your charity." yes you do ong just take the money 😭
2026-10-14 03:14:30
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minnnnnnnnnnnnnnn777
Rina :
OH MY GOD YES , YOU DONT GET A PRIZE FOR SUFFERING
2026-10-14 00:14:09
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dmvdevin8
Dmvdevin :
I will always stand behind this like yes I’m willing to be a “charity” case 😭 we’re supposed to help each other it takes a villiage
2026-10-13 23:17:06
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sukerbaal
sukerbaal :
W friend though
2026-10-13 23:13:18
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_.blueberz
Amy🇸🇳 :
especially if you have children
2026-10-13 23:52:49
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kaylee.jaye
Kaylee Jaye :
I would never refuse money sorry
2026-10-29 00:21:27
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r0yb1tyou
🩹🐯 Rori / Rory / Roy 🐯🩹 :
Ppl just wanna struggle idk my mom is the same way I can’t stand it
2026-10-13 22:10:03
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cydonsaturn
cyd🪐 :
I think we are conditioned to turn down “handouts” cus it’s polite and also we demonize ppl who happily take those things when offered ( like government assistance)
2026-10-13 22:36:29
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grandmstrjd
GrandmstrJD :
Some fear it coming with “belong to someone”.
2026-10-29 00:54:43
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h1ve5
Tyh :
Wanting to live in a society where people want to give to each other, means you also must be willing to take
2026-10-13 22:40:49
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grillioay
grillioay :
Sometimes you need to prioritise self preservation over your pride and ego. Biting the bullet and accepting help will be better long term
2026-10-29 07:20:57
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komiccben
Ben_owko :
But if it’s a grant or scholarship suddenly the shame is nowhere to be found 💀💀
2026-10-14 00:51:59
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pilotg207
Winnie :
Also if you were so in stitches about it you can just pay them back. It’ll take a while but you can just do it in installments
2026-10-13 22:27:36
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goblinoid42
goblinoid42 :
yeah it's all fine untill they decide you owe them
2026-10-27 12:22:42
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wealllovekaira
wealllovekaira :
Handouts almost always come with strings attached, and the terms can be a lot more than the money is worth. Besides, if they suddenly stop, you can be in a much worse position than if you left on your own terms.
2026-10-14 02:38:39
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zakmainaccount
Zak :
I would 100% take the offer 😭
2026-10-14 02:55:09
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jo.agalanga
The empress. Jo :
I saw a podcast where they called women dumb for taking the child’s father to court to get child support bc “you should have it on your own without a man” wtf are we talking about????
2026-10-27 14:20:28
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hungryhungrypandas
HungryHungryPandas :
If it’s a pride thing, wouldn’t the best middle ground be to ask her to keep track of the expenses so he can eventually pay her back?
2026-10-14 01:45:40
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vunene.sephula
🧊 :
While yes you have a point but you are ignoring that this changes the dynamic in the long run. He will always feel obligated to this friend. If their friendship doesn't work out and he's the one to end it, he will be the bad guy. If they fall out, said friend can use how they assisted against him as a jab. So let's not act like it's very black and white.
2026-10-26 23:25:04
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greggotheeggo
Greggo :
You and everyone else who tells me this are 100% right but I just can’t mentally justify taking more than I give 😭
2026-10-13 22:08:25
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