#felt
Maybe she's fearful. perhaps she has it in her, yet doesn't feel safe quite yet to be that vulnerable? For me, sometimes I don't even know what makes me pull back...something whispers enough to send a jolt down the threads ( like an anemone or Venus flytrap....and I either shrink back slowly with dread, or slip instantly back inside myself. It's brutal for those who are on your side of things.
If shes worth it....have patience - it most likely isn't about you
Pointing out repeatedly how she has hurt or disappointed you can help if done with compassion - however, it also can compound the guilt and fear she Already beata herself up about....
I could be way off, but it can't hurt to share my experience in case it may possibly help another who struggles. I feel for you and how frustrating it can be. I hope you find a calm nurturing common ground, and maybe work out some dynamics that may benefit you both. Sparkles and love to you both. ✨✨✨
2026-10-14 03:18:35
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