If you didn’t do this in your 20’s… do it in your 30’s. If you didn’t in your 30’s, start doing this in your 40’s. LET’S GOOOO
2026-10-14 16:07:28
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Cougar25 :
I speak for all women… We are all very proud of you! You listened, and you acted, and you achieved! Don’t let anything get in your way!
2026-10-14 11:49:23
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lycia💕 :
I didn’t do my 20s right, but my 30s I will do right!
2026-10-14 15:28:04
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benji :
Skin glowing ! Educated baddie ! Entrepreneur ! Yaaaaas friend ! You’re an inspiration forreal ! Proud of you !
2026-10-14 02:45:05
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Peggy Hill 😽 :
Congratulations!! Im someone who did it wrong & I am now rebuilding at 34. Please listen to her!!!!!!
2026-10-14 05:07:56
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tiktokviolations0201 :
Build and set your own fucking table! THEN decide who gets a seat at it. Keep going baby!
2026-10-14 13:56:33
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Alexis37🫧🧁🍒 :
I wish somebody told me this I did horrible in my 20s 😢😭🥺
2026-10-14 12:43:48
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lala :
SAY THANK YOU BABY. TO WHOMEVER RAISED U RIGHT😁
2026-10-14 13:11:29
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Irais_bm :
I’m 42… not too late to start over right 😣
2026-10-14 05:16:46
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JustBurg :
What brick and mortar do you have? Tell us more about that
2026-10-14 05:59:10
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user8762863880287 :
Very smart! I spent my 20s raising kids , being a wife and figuring out my career. I agree with you, be selfish in your 20s!!
2026-10-14 11:53:25
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Ace94🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 :
Yes Ma’am!!!!! Salute to the Dr!!!
2026-10-14 04:17:28
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Zainab🥸 :
[Red heart][Red heart][Red heart] Listen to her
2026-10-14 20:31:54
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gymwithkai :
Hell yeah, 26 50% done with my PhD 🤙🏾 also just commissioned
2026-10-14 04:20:27
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KianaTHEremnant :
1st and foremost I am proud of you. I'm happy you're choosing to uplift women through your experiences.
2026-10-14 20:31:46
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20PT🔆 :
what mos do you recommend for medical going in Army?
2026-10-14 19:20:52
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Dana Yazzie 🖤 :
I’m 27 and going to school for pharmacy technician
2026-10-14 15:46:25
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char🦋 :
let's go! congrats 🤍
2026-10-14 20:31:31
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Adrian ⚜️ :
Proud of you! Talk about you and all your accomplishments all the time!
2026-10-14 04:18:32
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shimmy_4kimmi :
As a mom of 5 who graduated high school pregnant, I have never had this. I am still successful and very, very happy, but when you said “ focus on yourself,” it hit something for me. My life has never been that. It’s always been helping and focusing on others. I love it and wouldn’t have it any other way, but I hope my daughters get the same thing as you, and can focus on themselves for a while before having to give to everyone else. Congratulations!! ❤️
2026-10-14 15:08:32
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Nechie Nash :
Congratulations black queen. I’m sending this to my daughter right now.
2026-10-14 15:04:12
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Katie234567 :
I’m so proud of you!! This is inspiring, our daughter graduated college early. Now at 21 she just got a government job. So proud of her. Educated, no kids and job that offers a pension.
2026-10-14 05:05:07
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London Nicole :
Thank you for this advice …I’m no longer in my 20’s but I’m a make the rest of it about me 💕
2026-10-14 05:09:46
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Triple_Beamer :
Amazing love to see black women excel in the military
2026-10-14 04:47:44
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DEL :
Black excellence! Love to see it! Congrats Doc!!!!
2026-10-14 04:31:25
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