aurellie :
hi kak, it’s okay kok. aku udah 9 months after my breakup, and honestly sampai sekarang masih ada hari2 di mana aku nangis dan masih denial. still goin to psikolog juga hihi😂. so, aku ngga berani bilang “everything is gonna be okay” right now, karena aku tau kata2 itu ngga selalu bisa bikin rasa sakitnya hilang. sometimes, we just have to let ourselves feel the pain without forcing ourselves to heal faster than we can.
take your time, kak. two days is still very recent, so you don't have to pressure yourself to be okay. pelan2 aja, learn to accept what happened, one day at a time. healing doesn't always mean you stop crying or stop missing them. sometimes, it simply means learning how to keep living even when a part of you is still holding on to the past.
and maybe, at the end of the day, we don't have to win. we just have to survive it. kita ngga harus keluar dari perpisahan ini sebagai pemenang, ngga harus membuktikan siapa yang lebih bahagia atau siapa yang lebih cepat sembuh. pada akhirnya, kita cuma perlu selamat, kak. survive the days that feel impossible, until one day, living doesn't feel this heavy anymore. 🤍
2026-10-15 06:42:50