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Ini Olulope :

I’m avoidant so I’m actually going to avoid this video

x :

Another overlooked relationship skill is tolerating uncertainty especially in the early stages of dating! I think both parties can struggle to distinguish between genuine inconsistency and discomfort with uncertainty or the pace of thing! Would you call this an epidemic 👀😭

Bre :

I love your page. 🥰

Tikthothoe3030 :

They have high standards for the other person but not for themselves.

yourmom98 :

Girl this is too nuanced for tik tok 😭😭 they blame their lack of success on their high standard

DeltaVelocity :

Also, high standards are for how they treat you, not a wishlist of attributes you want them to have. People say they have high standards then pull out a toys-r-us xmas wishlist of qualities they 'need' in their partner.

Gnome Chompski :

the only high standards I have for a relationship are for their character. idgaf how much money you make or what you have, let me see how you treat the janitor, or a lost pet.

skycakee34 :

I lack relationship skills thats why i follow

Ccassidy678 :

You can have whatever standards you want but if no one accepts then you have to be willing to be alone.

TK :

As soon as I see a lack of conflict resolution skills, I'm out.

bold.dot.dot.dot. :

Can you expand on what you consider “high standards”?

boiimouty :

i have great relationship skills and medium standards and i still single because i dont have any friends and i don't leave the house

Cesar :

High standards & low self awareness to where they don’t know how people experience them…

Haven Walls :

SO true

woonderful4ever :

Can you do a series of exemple. Like plays scenarios HS vs skills bad and good.

DEREK :

I guess "high standards" is don't cheat be willing to go to the gyn

mira :

this video stings

GenXMama :

bushra23 :

Thank you!!!

Tanja :

Tik tok has been showing me less and less of your videos but my brain knows I am just avoiding them because they hit hard 😳

Zach Young :

It does piss me off when ppl demand so much from a relationship but then they do nothing to contribute towards the relationship💀 like you fr just wanna be babied and that’s it

Merrick :

right right. like no one wants to attempt to get to know you on a personable level. they want you to embody their standards to an exact but they themselves may lack those things too..im like, so why not just work on yourself then?

Red.Gomez :

Lower standards even more…

KareemAkbar :

🎯

Thato Gwangwa :

😭😭😭😭