Ouuu, in my next life im coming back as a last born bandla.
2026-10-14 11:28:58
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ToTes1988 :
being a first born daughter this is why i get irritated when ppl cant do things for themselves because i had to so why cant you 😭😭😭😭
2026-10-14 12:58:58
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Kgomotso. M :
I’m so tired bandla!!
2026-10-14 10:41:44
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NTHATO :
being the most reliable person exhausts the shit out of u
2026-10-14 13:16:51
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Princess Remii🧚♀️ ᥫ᭡ :
Being a first born is so hard yoh😭like Im always over extending myself and the convincing part.
2026-10-14 12:38:15
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Alinah :
I became a parent to the entire family 💔so I got used to providing, protecting, caring, building, yoh the list goes on. This affects my relationships so much, cause I start parenting immediately! I provide, protect, reprimand and show up more like a parent than a partner as soon as I love you. I cannot hold back. It’s who i have been my entire life.
2026-10-14 10:47:02
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n.othilee_ :
this is so true especially the transactional part of it
2026-10-14 10:51:32
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Jo-Anne Sibongile delaharpe 🎀 :
I need a break! Always been on survival mode , can’t wait to enter my soft girl era
2026-10-14 12:15:20
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𝔅𝔬𝔦𝔱𝔲✰ :
And you’re constantly reminded that you’re a first born daughter when your siblings do something wrong and you failed to “correct” them
2026-10-14 13:45:03
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youlovememoreeee :
First daughter trauma😔
2026-10-14 10:51:20
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H🦋O🦋P🦋E :
She took the words right out of my mouth 🥺being a first born daughter is crazy and a blessing but how w our minds are engineered makes it feel like a burden
2026-10-14 20:09:02
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Dlamalungelo :
I'm a first born son, I thought this only happened to me. When someone does something for me, I wanna pay them or do something for them in return.
2026-10-14 18:39:18
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MmasetshabaNonyane :
yoh nna ke learning to survive at a young age not just for me but for my younger sister so that we dont depend on others
2026-10-14 11:56:28
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_fuzelihlee.💜 :
I would change the entire family🙏🏽
2026-10-14 11:13:55
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Anelisa Munchkin😍 :
in my next life I want to be a lastborn😭
2026-10-14 11:32:39
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Tshenolo🌸 :
Yhoo being a first born daughter is tiring😢
2026-10-14 12:09:04
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Tepsy❤️ mokgomo🇿🇦 :
She's so gorgeous I can't 🥰
2026-10-14 13:42:35
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Lyricsss🦋 :
Having to be the bigger person all the time, I h8 that we’re taught that everyone else around you needs to be good & catered for before you can focus on yourself.
2026-10-14 15:42:59
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🪼. :
nje being a first born is very tiring you always have to put other people first kahle kahle damage yourself for others
2026-10-14 13:10:16
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B I G B A B A🦦 :
oh she spoke a language my soul understands.
2026-10-14 12:41:46
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Rato Rabohlale :
Did she lie?🥺
2026-10-14 19:08:55
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Kale™ :
Being a firstborn daughter has made me terrified of having kids because I feel like I’ve already raised my siblings. I was always blamed when my younger brother misbehaved, so I became strict to avoid getting into trouble myself. Now we’re adults, but I still struggle to see him as anything other than someone I’m responsible for, and it’s strained our relationship. I’m scared of repeating this cycle and making my own firstborn a deputy parent. I love my siblings, but I wish I’d been allowed to just be their sister.
2026-10-15 06:19:45
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