@divergentowl2087: Just because they love the way you love them doesn't mean they love you the way you need to being loved. You know whats painful loving someone wanting them to choose you and it just not happening. Many of us fall into marriages where one thinks we can love enough for both and the other is like this person checks all my boxes but... What a sad ending for both. Relationships are choices but sometimes we make the wrong choices out of fears of not being enough or being alone... until we handle those false beliefs we will fall repeatedly into relationships that confirm our own subconscious beliefs. heal yourself and find yourself in a spot where you are ready to attract the right one.